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how do i get my mom to let me?
I love my bf and we wont have sex..that's a good thing we both don't wanna do anything like that. but his mom wants me to go over to there house and hang out. i know my moms gonna say no, but i think its because she doesn't trust me..i haven't asked her yet. iv never given her a reason not to trust me anyways. i just don't wanna loose him. i only get to see him at church and high school football games and hes on the team so its hard to balance that out. is there aa certain way i should ask her or should i even ask??she doesn't understand because she didn't really have bfs in high school..shes real old school too.
im also not close to my mom at all..or my dad but they have met him once and he shook there hands
hes not gonna dump me if i dont he just wants to hang out i just simply made it clear by saying i dont wana loose him that i love him..and i really do.
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
My mom used to be like that when I first got together with my boyfriend. She had to come over and stay the whole time the first time I was there and then she trusted his mom enough to let me come over more. Another option is asking your boyfriends mom to call and talk to your mom. This way she knows that you were invited, that his mom will be there, etc. Otherwise just say, mom i'm growing up and I would really like to spend some time with ----------. His mom invited me over for ----------. Can I please go? Good luck
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I am a mother, my Opinion on how to ask...
simply state the question and follow up with how you are a responsible girl and should be trusted...if she doesn't by that...maybe give her some options of consequence that you will encounter if you prove yourself untrustworthy...
always be honest with her, regardless if you feel she'll be upset/angry/disappointed...if you're honest, your parent should have a lot more trust in you, therefore allowing you to be trusted with more freedom and responsibility
Another option, why not ask your mom to have him at your place if she says no to you going to his place, that way your mother can supervise and also get to know him to see how comfortable she feels with you two spending time out of her home...
Good luck...
Source(s): Just suggestions - 1 decade ago
I can't believe this is even an issue if he really loves you that won't matter and you won't have to go any place to please them, but if its that big an issue ask your mom if he and his mom could come over for a bit or you and her could go to his place for a bit or meet between with both moms, I don't care close or not you gotta respect what she says she's your mother, and if you don't you deserve what happens next.
Source(s): I was a teen girl at one point and I am a mother now. - 1 decade ago
i would definately sit her down and talk to her..it wouldnt hurt at all. Try and be open with her. Let her know what your plans are and if meeting him would make her feel better. & also his parents. The best thing i can tell you is just to open up with her... & also give her a reason to trust you even though you havent gave her a reason not to!
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
when you ask her make sure she knows his mom invited you so she knows they'll be an adult there. that usually helps.
