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Sex or no sex?!?!?!?!?
Im 15. Ive been dating my girl friend for over a year and a half. She not an unstable girl. Shes perfect for me. We have been sticking to smaller stuff but i want to go farther. i have talked to her but all she says is, I don't know, or, changes the subject. what does this mean? Again, sex or no sex. Because i know that if i wanted her to, i could, but i don't know if i should or if she wanted to.
16 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
If she can't make up her mind, you should do it for her. Sex.
Source(s): ;) - Anonymous1 decade ago
If she says I don't know or changes the subject then she's not ready. She's not ready for sex but at 15 can you handle all the possible consequences of sex - and don't tell me you'll wear a condom so she won't get pregnant, a condom split on me and my husband and now we have our beautiful three year old son, Hugo. She's just not ready, don't try pressuring her into it either. So no sex.
- 1 decade ago
If she doesn't seem sure or changes the subject a lot, than that probably means that she isn't ready to.
you guys are pretty young too, you should probably wait until your older, it maybe hard but it will turn out to be the best if you wait. hope this helped
- PoppetLv 71 decade ago
It means no. If she REALLY wanted to have sex with you, you would know. She would take her pants off and say, "Let's do it NOW!" That hasn't happened...has it? No. Then guess what. She's not ready and she will let you know when and IF she ever is. Lay off the pressure. It doesn't help your case.
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- 1 decade ago
she doesn't want to have sex with you it's been a year for goodness sake and you're only 15 you shouldn't be having sex any way. and if you really loved her or whatever you wouldn't make her have sex with you because you knew she would if you wanted to!
- 1 decade ago
NO SEX!!!!
She obviously doesn't want to, she's avoiding the subject. When she's ready you'll know. Just wait. Besides your underage, it's illegal x x :)
Source(s): Chaddie-the advice duo. - 1 decade ago
She's young, and chances are if she's changing the subject and saying "I don't know..." SHE'S NOT READY! It's that simple. It's not you, or the two of you together, she's just not emotionally and physically ready for it.
- 1 decade ago
Yo lil' 15 yearold boy..no.
Her parents would not apperciate that.
&& dont have sex wit her unless you are planning on marring her.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You don't have to wait until you are married, but do wait until you BOTH are ready. It will happen, keep an open dialogue, but don't pressure her.
Source(s): I waited until I was 18. - 1 decade ago
not yet. Not until she's comfortable. Simple as that
If you pressure her, things go wrong and when things go wrong, nobody ends up happy
