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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

1st Proper Sex! Need tips?

Me and my Boyfriend are planning to finally have sex this Thursday after 4 months of dating. And it's the first time I'm going to do it! (we wanted to wait)

We are using lube, but any tips (girl side of things) of what I can do to not embaress myself?! Most people say the guy does most of the work, but I want to make it special.

Thanks

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  • 1 decade ago
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    If you are completely sure and trust your guy completely please ignore people trying to judge :) Just remember that sex is something you can't take back and you may want to think about how you will feel after it's done. You may feel used or freaked out or regretful. Sex complicates things so once you have sex with him you might be expected to keep having sex with him. Think about possible consquences like pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections. Are you prepared for the worse? Have you thought about the possibility of something happening? Please don't ever think "that can't happen to me."

    Ok so now I've given you something to think about and you still feel completely positive about YOUR decision, i would suggest lighting some candles, taking deep breaths, (you do not want to be stressed out) I really don't think guys care much if you feel like you've done something stupid. I doubt they would notice! The only thoughts going through their heads are probably self-consciousness about themselves. If he's a good guy he's going to want to please you and make you feel comfortable, and that's probably also nervewrecking for him. What makes it special is the love involved between the two people so I don't think you have anything to worry about :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    it will be proper when its not so planned. and lube? seriosusly? dont have sex if u r not aroused by him naturally and ur body doesnt release natural lube. u have to feel it, dont think too much. most things must come naturally, just dont be too occupied with thinking of what u should do, be open minded. do lots of foreplay, arouse each other as much as u can, untill u cant take it anymore and want him inside of you, until ur body craves for him. and of course! most importantly USE PROTECTIOn. SAFE SEX is first thing to worry about

  • 1 decade ago

    First time sex you planned? It should happen naturally. Anyway just be confident and try to relax. At first itll hurt but dont freak out. Its normal. Make sure you are really turned on

  • 1 decade ago

    Make sure you dont make him do ALL the work, thats a mistake alot of girls make. Dont just lay there, get into it, kiss him, moan, and things like that. also watch out for the blood from your cherry popping so you might wanna watch out for that. Also make sure you were some sexy underwear/bra thats always hot, i reccomend boyshorts instead of a thong.

    Source(s): 15 y/o boy.
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Condoms, lube, patience, be relaxed, don't rush things... be comfortable.

    That's pretty much it.

    -Scott.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you have to ask strangers online about it you are not ready to be having sex.

  • 1 decade ago

    make shore you have plenty of time and then have plenty of for play it will help the more turned on you are.

  • 1 decade ago

    From a guys side of it... he is going to want you to put one of your fingers in his backside. He might not know how good it is if it is his first time.. but he will thank you for it

  • 1 decade ago

    condoms. And ride him well

  • 1 decade ago

    do u wanna see my vagina

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