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getting with a girl with 2 kid?

I met this girl at work (know her for 1 month) she have 2 kid around age of 1 and 3. I like her and I think she like me too but im ify cause she have 2 kid. I'm 25 and not ready to have that much resposibility and she is 21. We just went to hang out today and seem to click. I also like this other girl who is 28 but never got the nerve to get to know her and I had liked her for 2 years but did nothing about it and she is a good girl. What should I do? help I'm stuck between a rock.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I don't care for what some of the people on here are saying, because at the end of the day if you like someone then you should go for it. I think it says a lot about this young mother that she has a steady job even with two kids, so you can bet she is mature.

    At the end of the day, I say take her out on a few dates if you want to and see how things turn out. Just because she has kids doesn't mean she should be side-lined.

    I have a good friend who has a little girl and her current BF isn't the dad but he loves her as if he was and he didn't exactly plan on that!!

    I hope you give it a chance.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    If you don't check out the 28 girl, you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Go out with her at once, if she still wants. If it works, fine. If it doesn't, then you know it, you can forget all about her, and move on to any another girl. By the way, 21 got pregnant for the first time at 17, did she? That doesn't sound too responsible. The more responsibility you'd have to take, even if she seems to have matured a lot lately.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Let's face it: If you have to ask if you are ready to take on the responsibilities of two babies at your age, you are not ready. I don't think many guys would want to take on two young children, let alone one. Don't get serious with her and tell her why. She will get hurt, but unfortuantely that is the way it is for single moms with children. The 28 year old sounds more up your alley. See her and hopefully, she will like you back. Best of luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    ROFL at "Idiot in the Projects"

    Which one do you like more? It sounds like you're already on track in getting the yummy mummy :P

    Be aware she might not be up so much for sex and you won't get as much time alone with her...

    I would go for the one without kids. But that's just 'cause I hate kids...

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I think you are worrying too much over this since you have only known her for one month.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well just because you have a relationship with someone doesn't mean that you necessarily inherit her kids. i mean it's not like you are getting married or anything. I think if you like her you should go for it.

    Answer mine please?

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjlLB...

  • 1 decade ago

    You have 2 girls that want to get married. Do you want to get married?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Getting with a girl is fine. But getting with the kids is sick and illegal, dude.

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