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How does a Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby realtionship typically work?

And, how would a girl go about finding a sugar daddy?

Is this type of relationship typically discreet?

Update:

I'd like it if you would elaborate about the control and power.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    its a relationship based on control and power. Not a recipe for happiness.

  • Greg N
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    What is a "sugar daddy" and "sugar baby" are actually broad ways to describe any person who either tends to spend lots of money on their significant other or accept money or items of value from the significant other.

    There are different levels of such an arrangement. Obviously someone making two million dollars a year will be a different sugar daddy than one who makes sixty thousand. A person who is happy with smaller, lesser value things in life will be different than one who is lost unless someone buys them a new Mercedes. There's a wide range of other characteristics of such a relationship just as in any relationship and unrelated to the sugar factor.

    Is it typically discreet? Not to my knowledge. It would be discreet only if either one or both of the participants are wishing to hide the relationship for whatever reason.

    How does a girl go about finding a sugar daddy? All I know is I'd definitely never want to date any girl who at any time searches for a sugar daddy. I think there's something wrong in the head with any girl who makes that her mission when it comes to relationships. But, at a minimum, you need to find a guy who (1) has sufficient discretionary income, (2) wants to spend it on you, and (3) wants something you have in return, such as companionship of some sort.

    But consider this: If you have a sugar relationship, and something happens to the money flow, does the relationship go with it? If so, the sugar baby may be considered a parasite by many.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Sugar Daddy Relationships

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Basically in a relationship the father work enough for the both of you while the mother cook and clean for him. On a day where you both have nothing to do that is the time for you two to have a romantic moment. In a relationship the power is 50 50. No one has more. To find a sugar daddy you must find out what your looking for and base that on personalities and not looks. Find what your heart wants and not what your body is attracted to.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Yes typically discreet and he would spend either a certain amount of money on you per month or just pay all your bills/rent etc. you of course would be like his g/friend in exchange...and he might be married/or single just very busy with work and does not want anything serious. At times it can become serious and lead to marriage. Anyhow there are a few different sites and ways to find this kind of relationship. E mail me and I will share them with you. Loveredwinz@ a o l.com but make sure you tell my your from yahooanswers and I will reply.

  • 5 years ago

    A Sugar Baby is a term typically used to describe a person that is being "KEPT" by another, usually known as a "Sugar Daddy". The Kept sugar baby may receive gifts and tribute while making themselves available to the their sugar daddy. For a better definition try https://www.adoptabrat.com/

  • Liz
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    It's an exchange of sexual favours for money / valuables. You know - prostitution.

    You should have no trouble striking up a "relationship" like that at most street corners in the seedier parts of large cities.

    Oh, and you can rest assured that your customer will keep things very discreet. After all, he wouldn't want his wife, family, co-workers and friends (people who respect him) to know that he's frequenting whores.

    Not sure where you think an element of power and control is supposed to come in. He'll come over, use you as a toilet to dump his load into, put some money on the table and leave. You'll clean yourself up, count the money and tell yourself it's all worth it. No power or control as far as I can see.

  • 1 decade ago

    He takes care of you for all your financial need as long as you don't go around sleeping with other dudes.

    Basically you'll be his dedicated booty call and you should expect to put out when he needs it.

    In return, he'll pay for your allowance, cars, housing, even ur education if you work that out with him.

    Craigslist is one place, local ad on your paper, or just go out to party and socialize. Bars, clubs are mostly good but if your gonna look for a sugar daddy, pick someone older who's going through a mid life crisis. You'll find plenty at your local gym or health club. They'll try to beef up to cope with mid life crisis.

  • 1 decade ago

    Those kind of relationships are usually quite short-term. Basically you can look at it as being a hooker with just one really high paying john. Hit the dating sites and start advertising for older wealthy men.

  • 6 years ago

    In general, if you don t set your rules upfront, most likely you ll get screwed. Oh, no, you re screwed either way, my bad ;)

    Just kiddingggg!

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