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I am 13 and still havent had a "real" boyfriend or first kiss Am i normal?

I am african american (im a cappuccino color http://tinyadda.com/images/mvrlgsawiykjfhstxdm.jpg...

I have dark brown looks black hair that is at the end of my neck I also have brown streaks on my bang

People tell me im pretty/ beautiful mostly adults and like 2 guys

I have meat on my bone im not super skinny

I am 13 about 5 3 and 1/3

*** My point is I am 13 never had a boyfriend that last more than a week and i only had 2 bfs***

I am crushing on about two people how can I get their attention and possibly be their Gf

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  • MJay
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    It's fine, what grade does that put you in 8th or ninth. A relationship won't last anyway, guys are also not thinking to much, they mature slower so it may take a extra year for them to come around. I didn't have my first kiss until i was 14 and a freshman and i am sophomore and still have not had a "real" bf. Don't worry.

    You can try talking to them, finding out what they like and have the relatonship grow from there.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    I think girls who are 13 and already have a boyfriend are doing things way too fast. At that age, you should only be hanging around boys and girls in a group, and not dating.

    Plus, if you seem desperate to have a boyfriend - it just makes it more likely that you will not have one. Desperation is not attractive to the opposite sex.

    By definition, you can't call someone a boyfriend whom you've only dated a week. That is simply a date - and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, or where you are at at this point in your life.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That is very normal. I didn't have my first kiss until I was 16. For a lot of people, it's even later.

    It's just because you're 13. You seem to be anxious to get kissed right now, but in four or five years your problem will be getting guys to *stop* trying to kiss you.

  • 1 decade ago

    That's comepletly normal.I myself find it pointless at this age to date, because it will eventually crash and burn. And then the loss of that great friendship you had there is next. But that's just me. Some people feel like they ALWAYS have to have a bf/gf. Talk to them more, flirt, all the basic stuff. When your passing in the halls, smile and say hi. The less you connect with him, the more he'll think you're not interested.

    Good Luck!!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    honey, thats NORMAL.

    my friends havent got their first kiss until they were 16..and they are all really pretty girls.

    btw, at that age harmones and all that stuff seems to kick in. but trust me, your first will come when you are ready for it.

    your so young, just kick back and go with the flow and enjoy your life.

    it'll happen soon enough, dont worry. & dont try to rush into a relationship, it never works.

    so panic, cause a lot of people dont have their first kiss until high school. (:

  • LIV
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    umm ya ur fine

  • 1 decade ago

    if you had that would not be normal

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