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Girl and Homecoming Advice?
**READ BOTTOM FIRST**Okay I have a date to Homecoming with a girl that i like. We talk like on facebook and we say hi in school and stuff. I have no idea what to do from the moment i pick her up till the moment I drop her off. What do I talk about during the dance? What do I say right when I pick her up? Just in general what do I talk about? How do I dance? Do I buy her a corsage? What do I do during slow dancing? I was planning on asking her out if all goes well, when would be the best time to do it? Give me any advice that you think I need and please do add on I am a complete rookie. PLEASE NO OLD PEOPLE ONLY HIGH SCHOOL AND COLLEGE YOUR TOO OUT OF DATE!!!!!!!!! lol, but im serious no oldies :)
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- TaylorLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
im a junior so im not an oldie, okay? hahaha.
when you pick her up, comment on how she looks but dont overdo it. you can be general like, "you look gorgeous." dont get all nitty-gritty and complimenting everything; that'd be annoying. you talk to her on fb and school, so talk to her about what you usually talk about, but probably nothing class related. who wants to talk about grades on homecoming night? if there's awkward silence, turn on the radio and ask her what her favorite station is, what music genre she's into. or keep the radio (or your iPod) on the whole time. when a guy drove me home he did that and it wasnt as painful as silence bc we were singing the whole way hahaha.
dancing. loosen up and be yourself. dont be too self-concious on how youre dancing, but dont be too crazy. in my opinion, the worst dancers are the ones flailing their arms everywhere haha. watch your buddies and see what they do. depending on how close you are with your date, you might grind. when a slow song comes on, ask your girl if she wants to dance. if she says yes, cool! (see a youtube on how to slow dance if you need advice on that.) if she says no, to save yourself from an awkward moment, be like, "okay im gonna get something to eat/drink... want something?" use the song as a time to catch your breath.
corsages. nobody at my school gets corsages for homecoming, only prom. but i would ask your friends if theyre getting their dates corsages.
HAVE FUN and have a great time!!!!!! :)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Don't stress so much. There's a lot of websites that recommend topics to talk about during a date, but don't try to conquer every question on the list. Just let the conversation flow. Tell her she looks pretty when she you pick her up. I never expected a corsage for homecoming, but if you really want to get something, get like a single sunflower or rose to give her when you first pick her up. She'll think that's sweet.
You should wait until after Homecoming, to ask her out. Don't sweat over it. Instead try to have a good time, and, just in case, the night really sucks, you won't be bounded to a date you don't want to go to. If the night does turn out well, lead into a topic of what movies she's seen lately. Then continue the conversation to movies that are coming out, and ask her out.
Source(s): 6 homecomings - 1 decade ago
Tell her how she looks pretty.
Go out to dinner a couple hours before your dance starts, maybe with other friends and you all can talk and take pictures as well.
You won't be talking while dancing. Uh, most people just grind really.
When you get there just go behind her and yeah hold her waist. You don't need to get her a corsage. When it goes to a slow song hold her by her waist facing each other and just sway slowly.
If all goes well and you do ask her, you could ask her during the dance away from the music.
- MaryJaneLv 45 years ago
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- ?Lv 41 decade ago
thats a lot of questions. dont worry u will b fine. just tell her how beautiful she looks. and yes, you should probably buy her a corsage. if u are a freshman it doesn't really matter, but if ur a jr or sr then definately buy her one. at my homecoming, there was like 2 slow songs, and the rest of hte time people were just dancing with friends/dates. just do what everyone else does its not that hard. ask her out the next day if you want to.
- Jen's the Name™Lv 71 decade ago
firstly, calm down :)
I just went to my first homecoming last weekend and it turned out fineeee!
Just talk about random stuff, make jokes, school, etc.
During a slow song, slow dance!
Hands on her hips, move in a circle, not hard :)
No corsage, this isn't prom. Tell her she looks very nice/pretty/beautiful, whatever you feel like :)
and if it goes well you should ask her out, that's what my date did and now we're dating :)
You'll have a great time! Don't sweat it!
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- 1 decade ago
When you get to her house to pick her up, compliment her on how she looks. Something classic like, "You look great or beautiful" not "hot" cuz that just seems... idk weird. When you're at the dance, just talk like you would to her anywhere else. I can't give you specific topics, but get to know her. Dance like everyone is dancing. When it gets to the slow songs, ask her to dance with you. Put her arms around your neck and your hands on her hips (but not to low!) and if all goes well, then yeah ask her out.
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