How do I stop being so nice, when others aren't and are rude, is that a sing of weakness?

In agreement with you. You simply just get so tired of being nice to people who use you til they get what they want,don't appericate a thing,they act like you were suppose to do it,instead of counting their blessings,gee the sickening rudeness list goes on! One of the things you can do is just stop being there for those who take your kindness for granted.So they can learn a lesson in life what it means when someone is a good friend to you,what it means when someone drops everything to help you and to care,maybe just maybe these types will reline the error of their ways when that person or person just is not there for you anymore. Because not to many people care about anyone but themselves these days,so good luck finding a person who has a hear,they are worth their weight in gold,and should be appericated for the treasure they are. As well you cannot just treat everyone like this as many people too,know a blessing when they see it,so never be like the trash,just throw it out when it begins to stink!

I think the same thing. But you shouldnt stop being a nice person. Thats what makes you, you. And its not a sign of weakness. I think its a sign of intelligence and patience. ^.^

My dear friend

Being nice to others is never a sign of weakness, quite the opposite. If they don't know how to handle it, its their problem. Don't change because of others.

Hugs and kisses