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Does anyone have advice on how to get over someone?

Whenever I think about her, my heart hurts. I want to hate her, but I just can't do it. Any advice on how to get over people? I need to get over her so that I can finally move on. I have to hate her guts, or at least not think about her everyday. Plz plz help. **I'm not a troll

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  • 1 decade ago
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    First, you got to consider how long you were together, because the longer you were together, the harder it will be to get over.

    2nd, how recent the "getting over" thing was. If it was just a week ago, then expect that it is still fresh.

    3rd, when something or someone left or we left them, a void is present. It has to be replaced with something or someone for that matter. Go out with other friends, talk with the people you are close with, play some sports, things like that. You have to find deviations of some sort, just to get over someone. Remember, we don't have a capacity to forget, but at least we can be distracted from remembering. :)

    I hope you will be better soon. :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Think about all her imperfections, all the ugly sides of her personality and appearance. Nobody is perfect so you'll find some. When you first decided to love her you probably made a conscious choice to overlook all those bad things but now it's the time to bring them to light.

    Another thing to think about is that one day we will all be rotting disgusting worm food. Unless you decide to be ashes.

    Source(s): Buddhism
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    forget women and do something else that you used to do before you met her

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