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Is this too good to be true?

I met this guy through a friend, around march break. I was with one guy i knew (Eric) and his other 4 friends (Sean, sonny, justin and kevin) but i only talked to justin really.

Kevin had me on msn for the longest time from a random group chat. but near summer he asked me outa knowhere if i wanted to go swimming with him and sean, i didnt but after that we started talking. and i went to his house durring the summer once, then kept going back.

We've only really been hanging out since summer. so like 4-5months, and when we hung out he was super friendly and nice, we got close fast.

then he later asked me out.

This is the first time ive had a guy like this.

He seems perfrect, i can trust him, i feel comfterble around him, we can be just laying done and everything is in harmony. we can also have our sexual moments where its not werd after.

Thing is we've only been going out for 2 months (5 if you count when we started hanging out, cause he was super friendly and we'd cuddle), and have latly got into a lot of sexual stuff. i dont want him or me to get bored, but i dont wanna slow down either (But i dont want to have sex, and he knows that, he respects my desicion). he says he doesnt want me to leave or hurt him, and i dont want to either. Just, do you think this will last? were only 16, hes in grade 11, im in grade 10 (Don't know how it happend but he has a late birthday)

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  • 1 decade ago
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    It may last for a while. He sounds like a good catch. Keep mixing things up and making it interesting. Have sex if you want as long as your both safe and comfortable with it. High school is a weird time a guys are super horny. If you don't give him any for a while he may get frustrated and search for it else where.

  • 1 decade ago

    It's great that he respects your decisions and feelings about sex. If he really cares about you, he will definitely wait until you are both ready. It sounds like you are off to a good start. The best and long lasting relationships begin with a good foundation based on friendship and trust. Without that, you have nothing. You are both young and so is your relationship. Try to relax and let things flow naturally. Work on really getting to know each other and have fun. Unfortunately, there is no crystal ball that can tell us what our future holds. I've known couples who got pregnant and married at sixteen, having all the cards stacked against them and are still happily married today. I also know couples who waited until they were older and had long engagements and got divorced within the 5 years of marriage. My best advice to to work on building a good foundation of trust and friendship. I really wish I knew what I know now when I was 16. Life would have been so much easier and painless. I hope this helps.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you don't to get bored, of eachother. Then try something new, but in a sexual way. Make sure you can entertain him and just be able to keep him company. It's not too good to be true. It's just how you both feel about eachother and i'm guessing you're both on the same level as eachother.

    If it doesn't last, it doesn't last. It's not the end of the world. It's just how life works. Enjoy the moment, while you're init. Don't let it pass you by without having That way, you can't regret not doing anything.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Go for it girl! If you are worried about it being too good to last, there must be something wrong. So then I think you should continue the relationship but keep your guards up a little bit. You said you were going fast so make sure he isn't using you for sexual things, make sure he doesn't pressure you out of your opinion.

    Hope it helps:D

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well your only 16 the chances of it lasting forever are little. im 16 too and as teenage girls we ALWAYS feel this way. haha at least i know i do. but just have fun with it. if its comfortable and good then go for it! hes sounds perfect. im jealous :D

  • 1 decade ago

    Be sure that you're relationship doesn't become all about the physical. That can tear a relationship apart.

  • 1 decade ago

    let things happen

    If you fell any pressure go away...

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