Bipolar Fiance tough decisions?

Is she diagnosed bi-polar? Or are you just tagging her as bi-polar?

If she is definitely bi-polar, get yourself a therapist and dump the girlfriend. You'll need a therapist to help educate you about what you need to know and expect about bipolar disorder and to deal with her post-breakup actions.

Bipolar disorder is rarely, if ever, cured, so, trust me, you don't want her to come back. There are two sure things about bi-polar patients: (1) they will go off their meds - more than once; and (2) if they are suicidal, it's not a matter of "if" but "when" they will do it.

As hard-hearted as it may sound, if she is truly bipolar, you do not want to live your life like that. You have an emotional investment in her right now, but no legal or ethical responsibility for her. Things most likely will not change.

She's beautiful in every way imaginable? Then why do you need therapy from being in a relationship with her? If she really was beautiful, she wouldn't have broken you down like this.

Take her to therapy with you, and tell her everything you've put in this question: that her alcoholic, lying, manipulative, whoring ways have hurt you deeply and that this is the end of the line for you, and that if she won't get help and clean up her act then it's done. You've done all you can by trying to love her, and if she's too stupid to see what a great guy you've been by now, then she just doesn't deserve you.

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Ok, so she's been cheating on you and boozing. That isn't a bipolar trait. SHe can use bipolarism as an excuse if she wants but she's not owning her actions.

Don't look at it as to whether she'll come back to you or not. You should want out of this. Do you really see yourself marrying someone who sleeps around on you, lies and manipulates? Why would you want that. Just walk away.

You need to lvoe yourself before you can give love to someone else. If you put up with her sleeping around under the excuse of 'bipolarism', you're not showing yourself love.

I'm tired of people using titles as an excuse for bad behaviour. Bipolarism is a difficult thing but it's not excuse to trat your partner like crap.

You need to be with someone you can count on, who lvoes and respects you. She doesn't sounds like she's it.