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Why do people who think consent is required for marriage think their opinion is more valid?

Why do people who think consent is required for marriage think their opinion is more valid than that of anyone else? Marriage by capture is a practice throughout history and around the world. Who are you to say it is invalid?

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    I think people are missing the point here. In some cultures, it is perfectly acceptable for young girls to be married off to older men, or for men to "capture" a woman they want to marry. So just because some people see marriage as being for two consenting adults of the opposite gender (or the same gender) doesn't mean that they should be ostracized for those beliefs. Marriage has meant many different things to many different cultures. Is it really fair to say that those who believe that marriage should be between a man and a woman are wrong? Or that anyone with a view on marriage is wrong?

    More than that, how can we as a society attempt to force everyone to live by our standards, whatever they may be? And then the question becomes, where do we draw the line? What do we allow or not allow? And is it fair?

    For the record, this isn't supposed to be an argument for or against any kind of marriage. All I'm saying is that it's wrong to condemn people for their views on it, because they're entitled to their opinions.

  • 1 decade ago

    Good point, however, throughout history enough people realized that the parents of the captured party didn't like it and neither did the captured party, and now many cultures don't practice it.

    Note, it's not about validity, is about how a society functions.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    Because an enlightened society recognizes the rights of BOTH parties in a marriage.

    You are obviously unenlightened. Try to at least reach the 20th century if you can.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Forcing someone to do something against their will is wrong, hence why slavery is deemed wrong. Just because it's been done in the past, doesn't make it right, else Christians would still be torturing and killing anyone who didn't believe as they did.

  • 1 decade ago

    Because it violates the Golden Rule.

  • Shiv
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Yes indeed. And sometimes we accidentally capture sheep.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    how does one force a person to marry?

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    what color is the sky in your world?

    Source(s): not PeRfecT/JustForgiven SDA Xcatholic
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