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do girls like it when your forceful?

with my last gf i attempted to be respectful, i always said i didnt want to push her into anything, and whateva she was comfortable with, and i always asked what things she wanted to do

now im wondering if that bores girls, and i dont just mean sex wise i mean in general

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  • me
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
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    There is a difference between forceful and assertive. I hate WISHY WASHY.

    HER:What do you want for dinner?

    HIM: "I don't care, what do you want?"

    HER: Would you like to go see a movie?

    HIM: I donno do you want to?

    HER: Yeah I think it would be fun...what do you want to see?

    HIM: I don't really have a preference what do you want? " GAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

    Hello? Do you have a mind? I can't please you if you have no mind. I don't get satisfaction not knowing if you liked something or not. If you really wanted to do it or not.

    A relationship needs positivity and enthusiasm and INPUT.

    So

    HER: What do you want for dinner?

    HIM: Oh I'd really like spaghetti and meatballs..

    HER: Oh shoot we're out of pasta how about Meatballs subs Or meatloaf?

    HIM: Meatloaf is great!

    HER:

    Would you like to go see a movie?

    HIM: Yeah there are a few out that I'm interested in what ones were you thinking?

    HER: The blah blah movie or the blah blah blah movie why which were you thinking?

    HIM: Actually the so and so and the so and soo movie. Hmm ok then heads or tails and the loser gets the next movie pick sound fair?

    There are ways to ask and ways to ask and ways to answer. "I dunno" "Whatever you want" "What would YOU like" "It's up to you" is anoying.

    Positivity and enthusiasm and INPUT

    Positivity and enthusiasm and INPUT

    It will breed the relationship. It becomes contagious. It is never disrespectful. It is never forceful or demanding. It is a cooperative and fair place and makes two people really happy.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, every girl is a little different, and what works for one girl, might not work for another. However, if you like being a "gentleman" kind of boyfriend who is respectful and thoughtful, you probably would NOT like girls who get "bored" with it. I personally have only known girls who like respectful guys 100% more than rude controlling ones. Just don't mistake being "nice" with being a push-over who will let a girl walk all over you; if you're being a thoughtful person, she has to be one too!

  • 1 decade ago

    To be honest it really depends on the girl. I used to be with a push over of a boyfriend. So then my next was forcefull, however you need to find a happy medium. Perhaps forcefull isnt the right word. Confident is better.

    Goodluck.

  • 1 decade ago

    Really depends on the girl honestly. Some girls like pushy guys that like to take things fast and some girls like respectful guys that will take it slow. Taking it slow tends to be the best bet though unless she tells you she wants to move faster.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Depend on the girl, some like to be dominate in the relationship, others go with the flow.

  • 1 decade ago

    Nope...plain n simple. At the same time...quit apologizing....just be you! If she want's to be around you...she'll make that choice. If you have to be somebody other than who you are to be with her...than you'll be living a lie the rest of the time you're together. Hope you're a good "actor" if you make that choice.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Masterful as opposed to forceful. There's a fine line.

  • 1 decade ago

    girls like it when ur in charge they see that u are more of a man and know wat u want but let her make some deccisons to it must balence out also if u tell her u want to eat pasta or go see a type a movie and make that deccision it lets her get to know u better :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    just dont be too nice. Push-overs get pushed over..then pushed out the door.

  • 1 decade ago

    some women like a take charge guy and some like a man whimpy guy they can controll

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