plz guide me to right direction about this big problem about my bro.?

Organize a family conference,preferably with some neighbors and friends present..

Tell him to shape up or ship out.

Demand that he pays rent and for his share of the food bill.

As long as he hasn't a job or joined the army he needs to work: cooking, shopping,

cleaning, gardening, painting, etc..

Be 100% clear that being lazy or abusive will not be tolerated anymore.

Most probably he will not change his way consistently. Kick him out

of the house & tell him you will ask for police assistance if he comes

back before thanksgiving 2011. And stick to that decision.

It may break your heart. But your heart will also be broken when you stay in an

intolerable situation for years to come.

Second Nature Rehab might be a good option. Second Nature aims to use wilderness therapy to help groups of children and adolescents work out their personal issues and work towards wellness. In wilderness therapy, participants live in a wilderness setting, taking away most distractions in their usual day-to-day life. Good luck.

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Everyone knows what to do, they are just not willing to do it. You don't need guidance. You need courage.