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girls pls help me ..?

This girl is my college mate At 1st .. without knowing her on the first sight i went and told her that ur looking good, nd after sme days gave her greeting on her birthday in the college ... she returned it with great anger .. and sent a message in fb stating that " I dont like to be your friend or anything else"..after that whenever I cross her in the college she will stare at me .. I also see her .. this went for about 4 months .. after that i sent her a message in fb that .. "I was just an usual thing wat i did for that why you are not talking with me it really hurts me when U stare at me , sorry for each and everything wat i did and 1 more thing even now i want to state that you are the cutest and the prettiest girl in my life " she replied that "I didnt like the way you gave greeting without knowing me .. and dont worry i will talk with you " after that i was asking about her and she as asking about me .. after that i gave request in G talk .. when ever she comes online she will itself initiate the conversation .. but wont talk wit me for more than 10 exchanges .. she will say some xcuses and leave the chat ... unlike before she is not even staring at me or seeing me when i cross her in the college .. now my question is pls tell me why she is not talking properly with me and why she is not seeing me as wat she did before ... does she likes me ?? does beauty matters in this .. ?she very well knows that i love her ...If you love someone else and you find a boy like me crazy on U will you talk with him or ignore him ?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    telling her she's good looking when you're complete strangers = creepy

    wishing her on her bday when she barely knows you means u did some investigation of ur own to find out it was her bday, so she obviously thought youre stalking her.

    you're basically giving her the idea that you "love her" just cuz of her looks and if she doesn't want to talk for hours, then she probably wants to take it slow to get to know u first. and if u keep pushing her, that's only gonna make it worse.

    Give it time, let her be in control first. If she grows to like you, good. If not, just let it go.

  • 1 decade ago

    It seems she's kinda freaked out by your impulsive nature so just give her space dude. If you don't give her space she's gonna feel you're annoying. Act has if nothing, don't try looking at her, don't message her on chat and if she initiates the conversation just say "oh hey i'm busy right now"

    don't look for her at school. The reason for this is that she's going to notice a change. Girls love attention whether they're shy or not. What girl doesn't like to be told shes beautiful or be notice. They like that. so by doing the opposite she's gonna think why the change? or why is he not giving me any attention like before? Try that and then let me know how it went. Good Luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    she likes you and she is shy... believe on me.. i am a girl.. good luck :) take care :)

    Source(s): myself
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