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Please, please help me? I can't do this?

Hi there,

I don't know what to do anymore. I work, go to school full time, I have Fibromyalgia (a chronic pain and fatigue disease ) and Endometeriosis. My parents ignore the fact that I am sick, they don't support me and they never have. I have never been good enough for them, no matter what I do it is never enough. I work so hard to make them happy, on top of everything else I keep the house clean and that is a huge task...I clean up after 5 other people constantly. They are always yelling at me telling me what I could have done, or what I didn't do now, they are never just happy with what I do. I need help and support from them with being sick but they don't help me or support me they just ignore it and pretend like it doesn't exist when I am in large amounts of pain every day. Each day is a struggle for me, I push through the pain in all that I do and I never stop or never give in but it gets really hard. I just don't wanna deal with them anymore, they don't get it...they blame me for our relationship problems saying that I take advantage of them and that I don't care about them...please what should I do? It is really hard when my friends at work care more about me then they do. Will I ever be enough for them or should I just give up on them now? I am really having a hard time dealing with everything, work full time, school full time, the constant pain...please if anyone has any suggestions or words of encouragement I would really, really appreciate it.

Update:

I struggle with them but I am mostly struggling with the pain and the fact that it never goes away...I don't know how to cope...I take medication but it doesn't help much...I just get so tired of the pain never going away..makes everything harder...I just want to give up

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  • Anama
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    it is time for you to find a roommate or 2 and move out.Your relationship with them sounds unhealthy and I think you would be better off spending what little leftover energy that you have on yourself and healing. Sounds like you have friends and plenty of motivation,so you will be okay out there! You can also see if your friends know anyone with a room for rent or a basement apartment that might be cheaper than getting a regular apartment. Good luck and I wish you the best, but do stop knocking yourself out for people who don't appreciate or respect you!

  • 1 decade ago

    Why work so hard to please them? That's not your job in life. I think you should move out and focus on yourself, find a boyfriend or girlfriend to move in with you (or just a room mate) and start thinking about yourself for once instead of your parents and other people you try to take care of.

  • 1 decade ago

    Really

  • 1 decade ago

    move out they must be mental

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