Trouble with my love?..?

I think the worst thing you could do is go back to your ex fiancée. Your relationship didn't work for a reason and he says he is trying to change but is it worth the hassle when there's a big chance that it will end up the same way? I was in a similar relationship and we kept getting back together because he promised he change and he never did. Instead I found a guy who treats me better then I could ask for, all I had to do was wait and not return to the damaging cycle with my ex.

The last good guy you dated has showed you that there are good guys out there that will gladly treat you the way you deserve. I think you should just hold out and try and be strong for your own sake. Wait for someone you deserve to come along. Maybe in time your good ex will have resolved some of his problems and when he's ready, come back to you (which will make hooking back up with your ex fiancée an even worse idea!)

Anyway I hope this helps you feel a little less lost. Hardest thing is to wait and be strong but really it's the best thing, trust me I know!

You never go back for anything in life.............. your second boyfriend you mentioned had some problems.... so step back and allow him time to sort them out. He didnt say he broke up with you because he didnt like you anymore he simply has things to do. If you go back to your first boyfriend just because you are lonely etc then the second boyfriend will see that you hold no value of your friendship with him and would never come back to you. I wish you well...