Does this girl ******* LIKE me or not? I CANT TELL?

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So I wanted to approach this girl in my class for the past 4-5 weeks. Its a once a week class at 8 pm until 10 pm. I finally approached her after class two weeks ago and we ended up talking for 2 hours until 12 am that night. We were laughing and joking and both continuing the conversations nonstop. It as like non-stop laughter from both of us too. Anyways, at the end of the conversation I said I had to go do a paper and she asked me if I could drop her home(she lived like 1 minute away) because she was scared to walk home alone. Before she got out she was like "soooo do you want to add me on facebook?" I just asked for her number instead and she gave it to me. I texted her the next night and no reply though. Anyways I didnt end up adding her on facebook a week later and its been "awaiting friend confirmation for the past 7 days." And I know shes been on facebook because shes changed her profile picture. And then I saw her from across the street yesterday but was talking to my friend so I wasnt really looking at her and she decided to like walk up the sidewalk and the across so she wouldn't pass me. I had to say her name twice before she heard it since she was like 8-9 feet away when we passed eachother and then she turned and smiled and flipped her hair and said "Hey, how are you?" but I was already walking too far past her to stop and talk to her. 

Then I finally had class with her yesterday night and I walked in a little late and I saw her across the room and she was sitting in the seat next to where I usually sit but since I came in late I couldnt sit in my original seat next to her because it was taken. Anyways she saw me and smiled and waved and said hey through her lips because the teacher was already talking. Anyways at break time where its a 5 minute break she didnt come to me to talk she was just like staring at the wall and I had to go to her and start a conversation, but when I did she gave a huge smile and started talking and talking. Anyways, after class we talked and laughed like nonstop again but only talked for like 10 minutes because she was sick. I cant TELL if she likes me or not. I want to ask her out really really badly, but I have no idea if I should or will get rejected.

? · Accepted Answer

Take a chance. The worst thing that could happen is her saying no, but at least you'll end up knowing how she feels and can move on with your life. Just be prepared for whatever answer she gives you and understand that even if you miss this bus stop, there will be another one arriving. So good luck to you man! 

haha I'm a girl but I took a chance with a guy, not that I wanted anything to happen but I confessed my feelings. I knew it would be ok if I got rejected, because he's not the only guy out there. But I got a mixed answer, he didn't say no or yes, he just kinda gave a really pathetic answer. But now I know more about him, more about him than I knew in the past months and I can move on with myself instead of always wondering if he likes me back.

Get some closure!

Petro Sapien · Answer

she is just craving attention. She does like you a little bit. But she probably is thinking in the back of her mind. "Hmmm, lets see what he will do for me... How far will he go for me... Will he ever gather the guts to ask me out?" Hence, she will continue to play hard to get because she wants you to impress her downright! She is just judging you because if my guess is right she probably gets a lot of guys like you who want to "get to know her well". What you need to prove to her is that you are different and you will always give her the attention she needs. But, if any spark from her side exists at all, it can't be felt in small conversations. Ask her out. But take it casual and just be yourself. If she just keeps talking random stuff she does not want you to take control of the conversation. Just relax and try and get to know her first! You will find out about her more if you ask her questions about herself. That requires some presence of mind and you have to display all these to get to know her. If she is playing hard to get which i think is the most probable guess, she probably already likes you a bit. If she is just being polite, well, not everything is lost! She can still be a on-off casual HI-bye type friend. Don't think too much into this. Just say this "Wanna hang out sometime? When are you free this week? Maybe we can plan something this week?" See her response. If she refuses even if you are ready to reschedule it for next week or the week after next, it either means she does not want a "serious" relationship or she has a boyfriend. If she gives any response between "Hmm, I will see and let you know" to "Ya, why not! But I am not so sure" it means she needs a bit more time to decide. give her a day or two before you ask her out again. If she say anything "above" that, it means yes. But don't have a first date as a cinema. Go to a restaurant or any place where both of you can sit, talk and get to know each other. After the first day together (note: this will not be an official date) use your head and not your heart to judge her character and proceed further. All the best to you!

smit · Answer

I dont think of all people can fairly answer this. the only way your ever going to verify the certainty is calling her promptly. in simple terms pluck up the braveness and ask her out. perhaps shes waiting so you might ask her? I dont think of something undesirable ought to take place out of it. in case you fairly like her in simple terms ask.

? · Answer

she thinks ur an idiot with good looks. She likes u but thinks ur dumb. She just wants to kiss u. This is what i  think

Anonymous · Answer

nope

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