How do I win her over?

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I work with a girl who I think is the sexiest most beautiful girl I've ever laid eyes on. I'm really smitten with her at the mo. Thing is, I know she has kids (which isn't a problem) but I also know she lives with her boyfriend (PROBLEM!) and I know she's at the end of her leash with him. So, my question is, how do I win her over? What should I say or what should I do to convince her to go out with me on our first date??? And what should I say once we're out so she'll start to think of me instead of him? I'm at a total loss with this at the mo, but I'm determined not to lose, I AM GONNA WIN HER. Just dunno how! :os

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Just spend time with her - it's as simple as that. That's what my current boyfriend did, and my god did it work! Be the guy that she wants to see to get her mind off things. Be funny, interesting and charming. If possible, show her qualities that her boyfriend doesn't posess. Just stick in there, offer compliments, and be a true gentleman. It will pay off in the end!

Anonymous · Answer

This is tricky to answer because I don't know what your relationship with her is like but you DO NOT WANT to be this openly flattering to her. You need to keep some distance, play it cool, do less to impress her, not more. Try and make her chase you. I mean sure you can help her out and talk to her about her bf but try and offer good advice rather than just being overly nice cos nice guys finish last.

You want her to think of you as some funny, intelligent, laid-back guy who she enjoys spending time with and if you keep this up for long enough everything will fall into place.

PS. Being nice and serious does not work, you've got to be fun!

Toe Socks · Answer

Don't try and mess up her current relationship- for the kid's sake.

Anonymous · Answer

read the situation over.be a gentalmen.

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