Ramadan ~ why is it..?

a) you put your hopes up so high...so of course ull get disappointed

b) you put your hopes up so low....so of course ull find it better

:)

I cannot count down to the days when I have not been told how many days. I am the one who is kept in the dark about all the plans because I am not worth a cent to the ones who are supposed to be the team behind me. How could I possibly "count down the days"? I am abandoned as usual by the ones who are supposed to be helping me. They really do not seem to care about the situation, they just love their paychecks and worship a man working against me instead of worshiping Allah.

Well I have been studying psychology at my school and here goes....lol:

Well OK...Ur mind is composed of three psychis that are present within ur unconscious mind....Basically your mind is composed of only a small part that is conscious (feelings that u are aware of...) and mostly onconscious feelings that u are not even aware of but sometimes tend to try to show themselves in dreams....:

-Psyches----> is your id, superego, and ego

Your id is the part of ur mind that wants immediate sexual pleasure (and when i say sexual,,i mean anything that makes u happy like eating,,,,,napping,,,etc )

Your ego is the part that mediates between reality and trying to make u happy to have that immediate sexual pleasure....

Superego is the part which is ur moral values,,,what u believe ...ur ideal self should be.... basically makes u feel guilty most of the time....

So answering your question,,, ur ego distorts reality in order to prevent u from feeling of guilt/ displeasure.....Obviously in some cases,,,,,,the distortion of reality causes displeasure but this is how ur mind works!!!!

I hope u liked my mini lesson on Psychology lol...E mail me with other questions :]

I know right !!

This is one of the weirdest things that happen =\

I guess true happiness and pain can be experienced only in the hereafter, through Jannah and Jahannam. This world is an illusion after all..

You eventually run short of adrenalin - so nothing seems as exciting or as scary as you initially expected.

C'est la vie!

Salam alaykum~

If pleasures are greatest in anticipation, just remember that this is also true of trouble.

Elbert Hubbard

It depends on the person.

its always better to not be too hopeful or too perssimistic. Its good to be in the middle.

Please explain what on earth this has to do with Ramadan.

Ramadan is the holiest month in Islam. You would appear to be mocking the Islamic faith

such thing doesnt happen with me.