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Me and my girlfriend were in a long distance relationship and she cheated? i know this is long,please read it?

May has began and everything has been going great until later on in the month I looked at her myspace friend and andrew posted a status of the date they got together (which was the date he posted it) and the mood at get name by it with the heart icon and when I saw that, my heart sunk, I cried and my heart was hurt. I asked her about and she said that it was nothing and I'm being rediculous. I agreed with her and I calmed down and she said not to worry about it. Andrew kept posting love statuses everyday of my girlfriend and I kept telling her about it and she said to ignore it. I tried to and I couldn't, then later on in during the summer. Andrew posted a picture of him and my girlfriend kissing..omg I like stopped breathing, it shattered me inside and I was so mad and sad that I started cussing at my girlfriend about it (who wouldn't get mad? The feeling of getting lied to, especially in a situation like this). She said the picture is from along time ago and I asked her why she never mentioned andrew way before (because she told me about all her ex's) but she didn't tell me about him. I didn't believe her, I was so broken. A girl that I fell deeply for, we had thanksgiving, Christmas, new years, valentines day, Easter, and her birthday. We had so many plans together. I wanted our relationship to last forever, and she did too. I was texting her and andrew had her phone and told me not to text her anymore, and that I will always be lonely. It's all andrews fault, he set me off. He had no buisness in bugging into me and by girlfriends buisness. All I can say is, I tried my best and I know she's never coming back after all the love I gave to her, I thought she would be mine. I am depressed, I'm suffering in pain. She was 14 and I was 16 when we got together and now she's 15 and I'm 17. We only live a hour or two away. I don't know wat to do? i havent been on myspace in a long time because i'll tend to look at her profile. i didnt ask for this. i miss her very much though, we havent talked in a while. its just wierd that she is with someone else now. after everything we had, the holidays and us together. im so sad. i hope she still thinks about me, u think she still does and wonders why this happened? everytime i think of andrew, i seriously grind my teeth. i hate him! he bows down to me in every way. i want him to kiss my feet and apologize to me. its wierd not talking to her anymore, i still think of her. i need good advice, please. im suffering. do you think she will regret not being with with me even though i got mad at her? shes giving all her love to him and not me...hes living my life. i cant even think, i cant eat, im tired all the time, and im lazy. i cant believe she has done this to me. i spent 10 months of our relationship making her happy and talking and love. it feels like i wasted 10 months of my life. i told her that i am gonna break up with her when i had to much of this because of the statuses and this was ll tearing me apart. when i told her that i was leaving her, she called me crying, i was kinda suprise like this. (this was before our final break up)

i woulda never cheated on her, i had too many feelings for her, i still think of her. i want them to both burn in hell though, they can rot there for eternity. i dont even know wat to do if i see her. we had a date planned, and those seats r suppose to be tooken by us):

im all outa energy, forget it, i hate everything. she has been cheated on in the past and i felt really bad, so i picked her up from the dirt that her ex left her in and loved her and later and she turns around and cheats on me? i woulda never cheated in her, she was my god giving life

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Awe :( As I was reading this I could feel your pain, man, I even hate that Andrew guy.

    But than again, I only know one side of the story, so I guess I'll be giving a bias opinion?

    But really, I KNOW what you're going through. I was cheated on, and we were long distant as well. She told me it was because we couldn't physically be together. So, she missed all the cuddling and hugging and kissing and what not. It's gotten to the point where I don't even care about her anymore, point is don't worry about it. She'll most likely realize what she did wrong and that Andrew guy will probably mess up SOOO bad, and she'll realize what a nice guy you really are. But when she comes back, no matter how much she claims she loves you, walk away. That's what I did. And am now currently happier than ever. :) The single life is great man, especially when you fill it with an abundance of woman. :D

    Whatever happens to you, I hope you don't kill yourself or whatever, that would be total balls :\

    But anywho, good luck and I hope all goes well for you. :)

    Peace and Prosperity

    - Josh

  • 5 years ago

    To be honest, when I first started reading this, I felt sympathy for you. I mean, after finishing your question, I still do, but not as much. I understand that she cheated on you, and that your hurt. It sucks that after all the time you guys spent together, and the effort you put into the relationship she still cheated on you. But really...Whatever happened to better to have loved and lost...? Plus, I don't think its all Andrew's fault either. Yeah, he might be dating your ex girlfriend, which (I admit) really sucks too. But your girlfriend chose to be with Andrew too. Andrew didn't just randomly "steal" her away from you against her will. Plus, I think saying you want them to rot in hell is taking it way too far. Pick yourself up though. I know its hard now, but things will get better. You don't need a girlfriend to be happy.

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