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jenee
jenee asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

I hate having sex and being intimate with my boyfriend?

I hate kissing and having sex with my boyfriend. I usually end up crying out of frustration and embarrassment. I've never had this problem before. I don't know if I can be intimate with him. Should I keep trying or just take it as a sign that we shouldn't be together?

Update:

I was sexually assaulted in the past but have had positive and fulfilling sexual relationships since then. I just feel creeped out having sex with my current boyfriend.

Update 2:

I'm 29 years old

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
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    Crying during sex is a pretty solid sign that the relationship isn't going to work out.

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  • Shailendra
    1 decade ago

    Dear, I don't know what exactly you wish to ask? Having 'intimate' relations with someone happens only in few conditions. In cases like your's, either 'it' happens as an natural urge or after having emotional attachment. So if you hate to be 'that' intimate to your guy reflects that you are not actually emotionally associated to him (considering you are not having any medical problem). So, try to analise your relationship & do accordingly. All the best. S.S.

  • William RUbik's Cuber
    1 decade ago

    Sounds pretty messed up if that's all there is to the story and no past issues then y'all are probly better pals then **** buddys

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hun, if you don't want to have sex with him then you shouldn't be! Espicially if it's making you sad. and if ya'll are under 18 you shouldn't be having sex at all!

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  • yelena o
    1 decade ago

    Theres probably somethin in him that makes u feel like that about him. You should probably end it

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    yes i think its a sign to break up --- if you dont love and desire him then you dont love him at all

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ewww leave the creepo

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