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Ladies, girls, women, what should i do? i need steps, bullets, etc. lol?
Still never got an answer to my previous questions sooo lol here we go.
I really really like this girl in my writing class for some reason. not that she's unattractive but it's just that i've never spoken one word to her and the only interaction is through eye contact. it's not much to work with as if she would just stare at me so i can talk to her about that lol but anytime i see her or even think about her, there's like a field of butterflies in my stomach...as you can tell i really like her. you know that most guys go for attractive girls and i don't want to ask her out and it turns out she's a slut or just wants sex on the first couple dates. i'm that one guy that girls talk about within their little circle with jealously because of all the sweet texts i sent from the bottom of my heart and the things i would do for them. yesterday, i didn't have class but i went anyway to handle something and i saw her walking towards me with her friend and maybe it's just that her friend was there but she gave me the quickest look like she's just checking who's in front of us...she didn't look at the two people walking with me at all but she glanced at me and that was it...last thing lol, i always have to sit in the front of class and she's like right in back of me. half the time we share eye contact and i try to not make it look obvious like turning around and starting a staring contest but we get our looks anytime we see each other. i see her once every Friday in a 3 hour class and last week i sat in the back to share a book with a classmate and her friend was sitting right between us. i moved my chair back and maybe because i was high but she just looked at me for like 4-5 seconds straight...i caught it with the corner of my eye but maybe she was looking at someone next to me. she looks like the party girl type but i don't want to be the one to judge...i just don't want that in my life, i just can't be broken hearted again and just because i've never felt this way for any girl in my life EVER lol idk what i should do...i catch a lot of girls especially the BADDD ones lol eyeing me down but i'd rather throw it all on the line for this girl. i'm kind of shy, we've never said one word to eachother...what should i do, what do i do, what am i going to do??? lmao but seriously, i need answers before two days is up because i have class with her on friday again. give me steps, decisions, w.e but yeah lol...i know it was a long question but none of my questions have been answered...please, no one word answers.
i really like this girl and i don't want to go down the wrong path with her and it turns into something i got caught up in so quickly without knowing her first. once again, i'm not a dog, i'm not in this for sex...i made that promise to God, you know, this, that, and the 3rd and i really like her but i think this might be a downfall too...idk just answer this WHOLE question lol
8 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Well if she looks at you alot she is proabably waiting for you to talk to her and has a thing for you. I think you should just say hi to her one day and talk about like class..and be like oh whats your name again get her name. Ask her what kind of music she likes and what shes likes to do for fun, act like you need help with an assignment and ask her for her number and just start texting her. Tell her goodmorning :) dont forget the smiley face! What are you doing:) dont forget the smiley face.. basicallly thats it just get to know her and then after about a week in a half invite her for coffee or dinner. Dont be too forward or too strong wait like 3 weeks to tell her how much you like her.
Source(s): My brain hope this helps :) - 1 decade ago
Too long, didn't read... Listen, if I get the jist of your long ramble, in classes sometimes you'll see a really hot girl, but the opportunity just won't come up to talk to her and forcing an interaction will just seem awkward. Maybe you have some friends in common, who can give you two a proper introduction. Or, wait until you have another class together and try to strike up a conversation then (try something like "hey, weren't you in my ___ class last year?").
- Anonymous1 decade ago
She is expecting you to make the first move since, by pronouns, you are the male I presume? So catch up to her walking out of class and say something like, "Damn, Mr. Dellardo (teacher's name) seems to be really facinated with these ridiculous essays. I have no clue what he wants us to write about. Do you have a topic yet?"
- 1 decade ago
It's only one thing to do and that is to ask her out. If she turns you down then you will know that this is not the girl for you. If she accepts then find out all you can about her by asking her questions and sharing some things about yourself also.
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- aijaz.fakhrLv 51 decade ago
YOU KEEP BEATING YOUR DRUM .... " I like this girl .. I like this girl ... I like this girl ???
How about that girl ??? did you ever try to make an effort if she likes you too ???? just making eye contacts without following it up with .." WORD CONTACT " is stupid in my opinion .. eye contact is there ... OK .... now find out if she is into you also or not .. and how can you do this ... no angel is going to descend upon you with the good news .. that " LO AND BEHOLD SHE LIKES YOU " you will have to find it out yourself rather than giving such lengthy accounts .. so .. proceed and check out and if you do not have the courage .. forget it
- 1 decade ago
You need to talk to her. Not just eye contact. You are never going anywhere. If you gave me eye contact I'd be, "Oh it's that guy from my class." If I knew you some, I'd say "Hey (your name) did you finish the assignment?" lol Just talk to her...u lose nothing!
- 1 decade ago
I'd say get to know her on a friend level before rushing into things.
That'd be the best thing to do. Get to know her. You know?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
no-one is gonna bother to read all that just to answer your question so shorten it up and NEVER say lol.