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Anonymous asked in HealthMen's Health · 1 decade ago

Porn problem? Advice please?

I'm 17 and i have a problem with gay porn and i'm trying to stop..but i keep saying i'm going to stop but it's so hard..can someone who has had this problem and overcome it give me some advice on how to stop or what they did?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You're obviously gay...

  • 1 decade ago

    What you need to do is to find a safe and caring adult male that you can talk to about your problem. Looking at gay porn doesn't necessarily mean you are gay, but it can mean that you have masculinity issues. Porn addiction doesn't just "happen" and it usually has something to do with loss, neglect, abuse or various other hurts one experience early in life. In my case, it was being molested as a child and having an emotionally unavailable father whose attention I could never get. When you are able to establish intimate, non-sexual relationships with other men who are loving an supportive of you, then significant changes can happen in your life. WHen you are 18, you might consider getting into a recovery program like Celebrate Recovery. I started going to Celebrate Recovery two years ago and it change my life! Porn addiction is a symptom of a deeper root cause. It doesn't just "go away" and it can be so powerful that it takes over your life and causes a lot of damage. How has your relationship been with your father? do you have close friends? Is there pain from the past that you have buried and not dealt with? I want you to be able to free of porn and have a happy an fulfilling life!

    Source(s): Personal experience and having been addicted to gay porn for 30 years before I got help
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It won't be an immediate stop. You will work it by finding something else to do while online--research, playing PC game (online or storebought), chatting with your gender or get a girlfriend who likes to chat. While looking at porn can be entertaining, it can also be instructive in that one can learn how to handle himself better with a partner. Whatever you choose, it will take a while and you will win over not watching (as much) porn.

    Source(s): www.bigfishgames.com as a suggestion
  • 1 decade ago

    Make it a slow transition to straight porn, gay to tranny to straight. If gay porn is what your into then w/e, it doesn't make you gay. A lot of thing I look at,i would never do in real life. But even if you are gay thats cool too.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    your gay. just admit it. find you a gay buddy and you want have to look at porn anymore.

  • 1 decade ago

    I have the same problem.can we talk? My email is teeshirt70@yahoo.com and my IM is teeshirt70

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Dont look At it.bLOCK IT . TELL UR mind

  • 1 decade ago

    doesn't sound like a problem, dude. be who you are and itll be all right

  • 1 decade ago

    find a different hobby

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