Should we break up....?

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I've been dating this guy for a little over 2 months. When we first started going out I wasn't sure if I liked him as more than a friend. He can turn me on, but there's not crazy lust or any awesome spark like we're meant to be together. I really love him, but I'm not IN love with him. There's another guy I've dated before who I'm still in love with who still flirts with me who I know I want to be with in the end, and he's dating someone also. Sometimes when I'm not with my bf I find myself wishing I was single so I could flirt with other guys. He treats me wonderfully and he's an amazing guy though, and we have no problems at all in our relationship. I get along really well with his friends. People always tell me how cute we are together. He's not ugly but he's not very cute though, and people always say I'm a lot better looking than him (although that's kinda irrelevant). He says the sweetest things and just makes me feel like a great person. I never want to hurt him but I know I'm being unfair to him. When he tells me I'm beautiful all I can honestly say is "you're really sweet" but I wish I could return the compliment. I just don't know what to do.

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A relationship should be special and something you shouldn't be ashamed of. From the looks of it you sound ashamed of him And if you don't see him in that light you should tell him before he gets even more attached. I did the same thing... and I'm still trying to get rid of the ******. it's been two years since I (politely) gave him the boot. Good luck tho

April · Answer

I used to feel that way dont break up with him yet... stay awhile u really havent said anything that is worth breaking up  with him for... stay and try to actually concentrate on him and see how it goes trust me SAME SITUATION....leave the ex alone it will only make u feel sad and ashamed TRUST ME  .....and u can i felt that way was flirting with my ex too and then one day i said let me try to see if i can like MY BOYFRIEND and we have been together 2 YEARS n i love the crap out of him.......and he aint ugly and cute either lmao see same thing....just try....remember this...DONT LEAVE THE ONE U LOVE FOR THE ONE U LIKE BECAUSE THE ONE U LIKE WILL LEAVE U FOR THE ONE THEY LOVE!!! ^____^ HOPE I HELPED

Jamie :] · Answer

I AM THE EXACT SAME WAY.
like foreal,
haha.
i've ardy thought about it and i love my boyfriend cause i know
he'll always be there and i can trust him :}

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Should we break up....?

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