Hey I wanna know what else to say instead of "It's ok"?

Well, as a girl I can tell you that we like when you actually care. Don't just ask ppl what to say and don't just say "It's okay". Think about it. If you really care about you probably want to make her feel better. Actually listen to everything she is saying and discuss the situation with her. If you can't think anything helpful to say, then ask her, "Is there anything I can do?" Or, just pull her close to you and hold her. Sometime all we want is a hug. Say her best friend is being a major b*tch, DO NOT say "Your best friend is a b*tch." Girls HATE that! We love our best friends and we hate when you hate them, even when we're mad at them. You should, instead, say something like, "Well, why don't you call her." Or, "I'm sure she's just having a super bad day. That was really sh*tty of her, but maybe just wait a few days and see what happens. I'm sure everything will be fine. Just try not to think about it." and then suggest things you guys can do to keep her mind off it. NOT SEX. That will severely tick her off. Go to a movie, rent a movie. Whatever.

Anything but " OK". If you care about her feelings then open your mind and listen to what she says and respond how you Really feel. I think you are scared either way and that's normal. hope it helps !

How about you listen to her and respond with what you feel you should say. Instead of saying it's okay, begin with "I do/don't understand" or have her elaborate and follow what she says. Say something appropriate to the situation.

1. we should focus on the problem.

2. you know I love you!

3. that's what's up!

4. that's what I'm talking about

5. that's the business

6. what's sup?

7. everything cool

"It's going to be alright,"

or

"Don't be sad, beautiful,"

Don't worry about it.