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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago

Do married people have fetishes?

I am getting married next week and my finace and I dont discuss highly sexual topics because we are both Muslim virgins. We have not even kissed each other yet for we are waiting to devour each other on the bedding evening come moon shine and star sparkle. Well, I know (dont ask how please) that I have a fetish of having my naval licked inside (in a swirling motion) and also the back of my knees and my inner wrists carressed. I also like to stand on all fours and have the guy "milk me" (again please dont ask) and tickle my crevices.....

I'm very embarrassed by my odd fetishes. Should I tell him about them or pray to Allah that they will go away? Again, I am deeply ashamed of myself for this.

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    That is so cute. YES...tell him. He will smile and then do it.

    I love this!!!! I wish I could hear the result of this. Oh, and just to let you know, men love it when you tell them what you like or desire. It turns them on, and I think you are not asking too much. Dont forget to return the favor by asking him what his desires are too!

    Happy first time hunny!!

  • Hailey
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    There is no reason to be ashamed; sexual interests and fantasies aren't something that only promiscuous or "slutty" people have, everyone does! Even more so in a committed relationship or marriage because people can experiment together and find out what one another likes, or dislikes. I wouldn't worry about it, it's not odd or strange and given all the different fetishes or sexual deviances in the world... You probably have the most tame and common of them all!

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    i think of you're purely stressful approximately sizes and comparing it to yours? if so then purely get it by your head that it is not correct what length different men are. i think of that is a fetish because of the fact that is basically slightly section you're dealing with. as quickly as you end your self from searching for a at the same time as, the might desire to look will slowly disapear.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    What a freakin joke. Hey you forgot to wear your burqa!

    Old Guy, Who is not a fan of the Middle East

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  • 1 decade ago

    fetishes have nothing to do with marriage.....so yeah, married couples do and so do others.

    You should tell your new husband what you like or think you like and try out what ever suits your fancy...thats why you are getting married, to make each other happy on all levels....so have fun discovering each other!

  • Yes, married people have fetishs. A lot of married people do.

  • 1 decade ago

    Those aren't odd. You'd crap if you heard some of ours! Just gently guide him or tell him what you want....you'll be surprised at how willing he'll be.

  • 1 decade ago

    it really depends on the type of guy you are marrying?? if you feel comfortable with him enough, I would say go for it and tell him. who knows, maybe he'll like doing it for you?! good luck :)

  • 1 decade ago

    He will do all of those to you if you ask him and he will want you to do things to him in return. THAT is what marriage is for, to fulfill each others needs!

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think he will mind indulging you with those fetishes. Have you asked him about his yet?

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