Long term boyfriend broke up with me after 6 years... HELP!?

mmmm I personally think that being too pushy to get back together actually pushes the other person away more. It makes them drift away from the relationship even more, so don't do that :) I think you should either leave it and move on and maybe he will eventually miss it and come to realize he misses you, but really I think if he left you and is already with another girl in that sense, then he isn't right for you.

The right person for you is one who will stand by your side even through hard times and even if you argue a lot. I argue with my boyfriend a lot but he loves me so much and he's so afraid of losing me, but I know that he's the one for me because it seems as though no one will ever love me more than he does. If he just left you like that, then find a better person please, one that's better for you AND your daughter :)

It seems like the responsibilities of raising a child caught up with him. If he says that there is no way he's getting back together with you then just leave it alone and let him come to his senses IF he ever does. As long as he takes half responsibility for your child (even though you are not together anymore), then that should be the most important thing. And besides, you need to ask yourself "If I get back together with him, would it be back to arguing all the time again?". If the answer is yes, then there's your answer. If you are going to argue with a guy constantly in front of your child, then your'e raising your child in a disfunctional enviroment. You have to find another guy who is willing to give you everything that you don't have while being fair at the same time (when I say that I mean you need a guy who is responsible, respectful, caring, and is fine that you have a child and that your ex is still in the picture because he helps you support your baby). If he's fine with that and he's supportive, then that's the kind of guy you need. Whenever you meet a guy, the first thing you have to think about is "Is this the kind of guy I want to involve in me and my child's life?".

All you did was argue too much?!!! So what you are basically saying is that you would be willing to take whatever mess goes along with this guy if he'll just stay with you? I feel very sad for you that you don't feel you deserve better. How do you ever trust him again knowing he's so close to that other girl? And what example do you both set for your daughter about how men and women treat each other? You may feel you'll make a great wife but he doesn't want to be your ( or anyone's) husband at this point in his life. He's not ready to "grow up". He doesn't want to be 'tied down'. He has told you that he doesn't want you. Let him go. If you haven't done so already, go to court asap and make custody and support arrangements for your daughter. Focus on taking care of yourself and her. And take a long hard look at how you managed to allow this guy to become your 'everything'. What can you do to be self sufficient? And can you contact family for additional support?

seems like youre the one who needs to grow up. He doesnt want you anymore, probably never did. Get over it