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How does a WEIRD girl get guys?
A question I asked earlier on how to get guys.I got an answer that said I need to wear more makeup,dress skimpy,and drag boys off in private to have sex.If I want it I gotta take it,to paraphrase what they said.It's really east once you have sex once,the rest comes naturally.
Now I don't know if that works for normal girls but it sure as hell doesn't work for me.
One,I can't dress skimpy at school.But I do try to look my best.Then there is the fact that every guy in my school thinks I'm weird.As in,I have been seriously asked by TEACHERS if I'm doing drugs.I'll admit I am strange.I'm hyper.Talk about zombies.Wear really loud clothing (cat ears/tutus/neon etc.).But I am nice.I stay skinny.I try to look confident.I keep my grades up.
Now I can't really go out and meet anyone.Seeing as I'm never invited to parties and there are no actual sporting event around town.There are no clubs for me to join that share my interests (middle of no where in the country) and right now i'm basically relying on friends and a few internet sites to find guys.
My question is.How does a girl like me get a guy? Do I have to change myself? Because it's starting to look that way.
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- AlexLv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
look, I know how it feels to be alone but at some point in life these things change when you stop caring about it, just be yourself and show that you dont wanna look awkward and weird and you just be yourself. i have problem getting girls for me too, so i know how is it like. but i available if you wanna talk with me add me on facebook nasirakd@gmail.com.
- 1 decade ago
You don't need to change.
1.Dress. You need to look good. It does not matter what your style is, as long as you look good in it. You can wear skimpy and tight loud clothing, for example. In any case you can show more skin(they do make loud shorts, tops and such right...)
2.Accept that your 'weird and strange'(if by normal your talking about bland people). It does not matter at all what other people think. And after all, you think plenty of them are weird and strange too. So you won't attract the football jock type, big deal, there are other guys in the world. Not every guy will like a girl like you(and of course any guy, even the normal ones, don't like every type of girl). Not everyone likes everyone.
3.Your town is so small there is nothing you can join? How about school activities? You don't have community sporting events? How about starting your own club? You don't have to join a group, you just need to be out in public.
You might need to step up and ask a guy out yourself...or at least set him up so he can ask you out.
- 1 decade ago
O.K first things first, never and I mean NEVER change yourself for someone else. Sure you might be a little strange. Sure people might look at you differently then the average girl in the hallway. And sure some people might not respect you for that. But honestly, who needs them? I can tell that you are a great girl and there is no reason for you to change so don't. Please don't listen to the other people that told you to change yourself because those aren't the kind of guys you want and those are the kind of guys that you will be attracting if you do what they say. You probably won't want to take this advice and that's fine but please know that if you do change then you will never find a guy that likes you for the real you.
- willockLv 45 years ago
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- 1 decade ago
Lol you sound like me (except I'm shy) I keep to myself and i wear emo clothes (although I'm not an emo)
Emo dudes are interested and so are older guys (cuz i'm tall, skinny and fairly pretty) But no boys my age are usually interested :(
Whatever you do don't turn into a whore!!! No way! Don't change, a guy that can't accept you for who you really are won't make decent boyfriend material!!!
Source(s): My BRAIINNNNN - Anonymous1 decade ago
You're kidding, right? The answer is NO WAY.
You may think you're weird, but one guy out there will think you're perfect just the way you are (*cue in Bruno Mars). Don't change yourself for a guy. If you do, he won't love you for you, and you won't be happy. Just wait. Your perfect dude will come along soon :)
- 1 decade ago
As one WEIRD girl to another: tell the others to shut up. Be yourself. And no matter HOW LONG you have to wait (and it may be long), don't make any exceptions- stay the same. Guys will come. You just have to be patient.
- ?Lv 41 decade ago
You shouldn't have to change in order to get guys. Be yourself and you'll get someone who loves you for who you are. Who knows maybe he'll be like you too.