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Asheypooh asked in Social SciencePsychology · 1 decade ago

I have major anger issues...?

i have anger issues. i am 16 years old. i always spaz on people whenever they do the smallest things. the smallest things just get under my skin and makes me spaz on whoever. it happens multiple times a day. it is so weird. i have no idea what to do. my mom is sending me to a psychologist to talk out my feelings and it is ridiculous. my anger is pushing people in my life away it is becoming unbearable. i dont know what to do to help myself. any ideas?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Believe it or not, your mother knows best now. You do need a psychologist so you can get to the root of this problem and begin to deal with what is hidden deep inside of you that makes you throw fits of rage. Yes, talking to a professional can help you understand what is happening to you and how to deal with it.

    In the meanwhile, you know what sets you off and you can feel that smoldering fire inside of you burst into flames. So, you are well familiar with the feeling your body goes through just prior to an enraged episode, right? As soon as you recognize that ball of fire, step back from the situation and take a few deep slow breaths through your mouth and exhale slowly through your nose. This extra oxygen will go to your brain and give you a calming effect and while you are taking those slow few breaths, you can compose yourself and avoid the rage. It is hard to do at first, but you can do this.

    Often teens are impatient and think they know it all. I know, I was once the smartest teenager in the world, you know? But really, there comes a time when people know more and better than you do and this is where you just have to have faith and trust in those who want to help you.

    You are losing friends and family is fed up with your bratty behavior. It is high time you do what you can to control your anger before you become an adult. This society we live in has zero patience for people like you and you will be in a world of hurt if you do not temper your anger. Unruly women date horrible men and have terrible lives. Please do not do that.

  • 5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    Hi Sweetheart, #1--Psychologist #2----Try real hard to think b/4 u act out. 3--Practice staying in a calm mode at all times 4---Others have feelings also, think of that 5---Think about what & how things come out of your mouth.

    Good Luck & God Bless

    Source(s): I understand, same problem, my psychologist helps a lot
  • 1 decade ago
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  • 1 decade ago

    dont pay attention you can just go and have like a squish ball thing

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