Why does it hurt so much when the only person you want to be with ever won't even talk to you?

Ouch, I understand how truly painful that can be. Thing is, though, if you really were perfect together you wouldn't be in this situation. He doesn't think you're perfect together and because of that, you're not.

The person you're meant to be with adores you, communicates with you and adds happiness to your life. He doesn't ignore you, leave you with big, unanswered questions and make you miserable.

Look at the best relationships you know (could be relatives, or friends). They don't ignore and hurt eachother. They talk and laugh; that's what you want. It hurts now but that'll pass and you'll come out the other end. x

You have locked yourself into one frame of mind and you are not letting yourself consider other possibilities, that is why you are in so much pain. You believe that he is the ONLY person you want to be with and that you two are perfect for each other, so in your heart there is no room for anyone else. You need to move forward by freeing your mind, believe me when i say that there are many more 'perfect' matches for you out there, even better than him who will love you much more than him, all you have to do is let go of him. if you don't believe it now, one day you will. but before then, you are going to waste a lot of valuable time and emotions crying over spilt milk, unless you wisen up and look to your own best interest.

Either you did something to offend him or he's found someone else.There a number of reasons for each scenario-you will have to examine all of the facts and come to a conclusion.If you can't come up with an answer,then you'll have to move on with your life-there's plenty more fish in the sea!!!

You must have done something to provoke it! The way your question is shaped it gives me the impression of a person that doesn't like to focus on his/her mistakes, but rather talk of others reactions to their actions as if they happened out of the blue. One thing life has taught me is that we deserve 90% of the things that happen to us, as far as relations are concerned.

Sounds like he made a lasting impression by the comment you posted. That's life and sometimes it sucks but maybe he will come around and talk to you one day.

Oh well....sh*t happens....and it will happen throughout your lifetime. So, time to grow up and move on, or sit in a corner and feel sorry for yourself.

Tell me about it I sent my husband an email saying what cha doin' he just said I'm busy. sigh.

Clearly he didn't think so.

Because you love him, I'm so sorry. :(

i know the feeling. i hate it. idk y it hurts. can u please answer mine.

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