Is this much PAIN from loosing your virginity normal!?

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It shouldn't hurt very much I mean yes it will probably hurt the first time but it shouldn't hurt so bad that it might make you have to stop sex or anything. If it's the most painful experience in your life that's definitely not normal even if you aren't relaxed and not very wet at all and tighter than normal down there it still shouldn't hurt that bad. I would get checked out just in case. Try using a lot of lube and do whatever you can to be relaxed. Also if you don't already do it masturbating might help to make you a little looser down there. Good luck!

My first time hurt like hell too.

He was only small, but even still I only let him go a cm at a time, and once he was in.. that was it.

Try and get really wet first and take it slowly.

My 2nd time was a little uncomfortable but after that it was fine.

being more wet can help. Try using some lubricant or make sure you're in the mood for it in which you can produce more natural lubricant

Use some KY Jelly or stick to oral sex.

try to be relax and put a vagina lubrication