help! advice needed with bff?

Friends come and go but if you'd like to keep this particular relationship going, give it some time so you're all cooled down about the issue then go and discuss it with her. Make sure to say Beth isn't your new BFF just a replacement because you were lost without her.

Don't be too clingy incase she throws it back in your face, but you can only try to get the friendship back. She may not want to as it seems like she's been pushing you away for awhile now.

I'm sorry to hear that you're in such a tricky situation.

The reason why she has been trash talking is most likely because she has no other way of dealing with her anger or frustration about the situation. Everyone needs to vent when they have troubles in their life. When they're is a lot of emotion built up, it's not surprising to turn to emotion driven actions such as trash talking. What you need to do is just take the high road and leave all the trash talking on her side. At the end, whether you two will be okay with each other or not, you will be seen in a better light.

I've dealt with flaky friends like that, and heard enough stories from other people. If she has not changed her ways or if she does not show any improvement about her care for the friendship, then I'd say that it is time to move on to better friends. I don't know what age you two are, but it sounds like after the two and half years one of you has outgrown the other.

If she is talking about some boy, then that also means that her thoughts and care is directed away from the friendship...or perhaps, she has chosen a boy as a distraction from the problems that you two have. If you are willing to wait, then time will show you whether she cares or not about the friendship. The boy might be out of her thoughts tomorrow (we all know how that goes), and she might be sending you a text or calling you when she has realized what she is truly missing. If there is no communication coming from her side, then the choice is obvious.

No matter what you do, remember to take the high road, and also wait for her to make the first move. You deserve a better friend.

I hope this helped in any way. Take care.

I think you should talk to her. I had problems with my bff over a guy, but we ended up getting it all worked out. Just go up to her and explain everything. Be patient, and when she's talking, don't interupt, because you want to keep her around long enough to get everything out.

Hope this helps. :)

oh my goodness, the same exact thing is happening to me! i have the same problem, and i need the same answers. not much of an answer to your questions, i just want you to know that someone feels your pain. :z

I say let it go...eventually you're gonna drift apart. It's natural.

talk to her!