Does her not replying to my text messages mean that she is not interested?

Alright. Here's my two cents.

First off, relax. I know you're trying to but it just helps when someone else says it. Calm down- even if this girl doesn't like you, it won't be the end of the world. There will be someone else out there.

I know the boat your sitting in, and I know that it feels like it's full of water and sinking. I'm the same sort of person- if I text a girl I like and she doesn't respond quickly, or not at all, I begin to flip. However, I've come to realize this all depends on how long you have had this situation with her. I've spent months just flirting over text messages and liking different girls. Then I get frustrated when nothing happens. But I always ask myself, "Why didn't anything happen?" It's because that I never made the first step- I never asked that girl out.

Maybe this situation has been going on for some time. Maybe she likes you too, but feels that you have lost interest in her since you haven't made a move. Maybe she is just busy and has no time to text. Maybe she dropped her phone in the toilet, or someone stepped on it at a party. You could play the "what if" game for a long time- but none of that really matters.

What it comes down to is your attraction to her. Do you like her? Do you want this to progress than something more than casual meetings and text messages every one or two days? If so, start taking the next steps. Ask her out to a date besides your usual sightings. Maybe coffee, lunch, dinner, movie? And when you do, be excited about it. Make sure that she knows from your tone and voice that you want to spend more time with her.

Be careful bro. Why are you guys not going out officially yet. You're in real danger of being friend zoned, for real for real. You text too much and you linger around. Girls want what they can't have. If you're having awesome conversations, leave within 15 minutes at the peak of it. By you waiting for her texts makes you nervous which leads to you acting that way around her. She doesn't text or get in touch with you for days because you're a mouse that she can play with. You have to tease and play the game of chase as well. Right now, she's the lakers and you're the charlotte bobcats. Step your game up youngin'

Here is was of the first major lesson's that you can learn about relationships with prospective mates(boyfriends) DO NOT LISTEN to your friends advices! YOU have to listen to what your instincts tell you! Each person has a different perspective, because each person goes thru a different set of circumstances that lead to different endings. Are you following me so far? In other words, no two relationships are the same! Everybody can come up with a ....well this guy/girl(to me) did this or that .. kinda what happened to you.. but it's never exactly the same. You have to go with what YOU feel at the time. I don't mean to stalk this guy or make him feel uncomfortable. The best you can do is quit "texting" the poor guy. I know that is in your culture now.."texting".. is the in thing to do. But honestly it's not very personable. I mean, you could be texting some guy in China, or next door for that matter! But there is nothing that does more for the heart than actual "REAL LIFE CONVERSATION"!! If you REALLLLYYYYY liked this guy you would go out of your way to find other ways of communicating with him. There has to be somebody that knows him and could give you a little more info! Research him ask around, and while you are at it, ask things like.... what are his interests.. is he seeing somebody.. does he like sports.. sushi..steak.. etc... Before you go "Ga, Ga" over a guy make sure he has at least some of the things YOU like in a guy other than.. he's CUTE! Another thing is guys don't like what seems to them to be "Pushy girls" and if he is not texting( or calling) back, that usually means he thought you were fun for the night but he really doesn't know you and wishes you would just quit. The worst is that you become a joke to him and his "buddies". Here's a scenereo for you.....Your guy is sitting there with a few of his buddies playing video games, watching the TV or whatever, you text him.... He laughs and says to his buddies" it's that dumb girl ( chick, whatever) I met at the party last week, look what she wrote!!" And then he shows your personal message to all of them.. He gets a kick out of it and all his buddies get a good laugh. He may even tell LIES about what you and he did that night to make himself look COOL in fronmt of his Buddies! They all call you a few unseemly names , laugh and tell him some stupid crap to text back to you. Maybe he does or maybe he just decides not to. SEE!!!!! You are now a JOKE! That is the problem with TEXTING you never really know what is REAL or NOT REAL:! How do I know these things you ask? Because I was once a girl, we used the phone( that had a cord attached) or notes( on real paper, LOL) but the world hasn't changes that much! And I have 2 son's ! I have seen the stuff they did to girls via the cell phone and text messages and their friends did it too! If he has not asked you out on a date in at least two weeks after he met you.. sorry hun..... but you are nothing more than ENTERTAINMENT to him and his friends! If you can't get beyond the Cell Phone, Texting and Computer. Hang it UP! And watch the Movie.. He's Just not that INTO you.. ! You will become a woman someday, and hopefully as you are getting there you will learn certain little lessons about "BOYS". I say "BOY"S" and I mean that because they never really seem to grow the #@%& UP till the reach the age of about 70!!!!! If your lucky! LOL!! Good luck in all your future relationships. I mean that wholeheartedly! Learn from everyone of them and don't forget the past lessons!! Your gonna need them!! :-)

If all of a sudden she quit replying to texts, then it means her interest level could be declining. In that case STOP TEXTING HER. If she has a history of speradic texts and varying response times, and she is still initiating contact and asking you out, then don't worry about it.

hm this is a tough one..i'm a girl and I personally hate texting..I never respond to peoples texts even if I do like them cause I usually forget about the text or am too busy or something..don't think it doesn't mean she doesn't like you. what I would do is stop texting her wait for her to say something to you..it might take a little while but if she wants you she will get a hold of you somehow..trust mee :)

You're texting too much. Try this brother. Play Cat and Mouse. Youre chasing her too much. Stop texting her and make it seem like her attitude is making you lose interest. She will start texting you first. If she doesnt then it wasnt worth it in the first place

Just keep at it, she may be playing with you or she may be really bad at recieving texts in a timely manner, I wouldn't worry about it if she likes you that much.

take advantage of that man, some girls like to talk alot!

are you two boyfriend/girlfriend yet?

if not ASK HER TO BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND!!!

thats probably what she's waiting for

It seems like she likes you. Maybe she ran out of credit?

Shes playing with you.