According to you, wat is better, arrange marraige or love marraige?

I feel there are 2 strong reasons for arranged marriage to be more success

Biological

Generally, during arranged marriage, 5 to 7 years differential age is one of the important considerations because women lose their biological charms much ahead of Men.

Whereas, in love marriage, ages are mostly equal. INSINCERE men may look for alternate, when they are devoid of sexual satisfaction.

Cultural difference

This also takes a major role during arranged marriage for the equality of 2 family culture and also economic difference and its a major factor for a long innings. And they also look to maintain this age difference.

One question comes in arranged marriage that knowing each other before marriage is not done but after even 50 years of marriage , many are still not able to know each other . Isnt?

Love for sure. Look at all of the people from countries with arranged marriages and how unhappy they are. I answer a million questions from them. They are so unhappy and miserable. Just read them if you don't believe me. Marriages have a 50 % cchance of failure. So, it is best to be married to someone your love with all of your heart. Why marry someone your don't love, don't know and (sometimes) someone you have never talked to. How do you know you have anything in common ? My girlfriend got an arranged marriage. They looked at the eduction, money of family, religion, caste, and that is it. Did not ask what her preferences were. It is sad. She is so miseraleble. Peace.

if your parents arrange a marriage you may have a better life than if you choose your own man. Love is at 1st very sexual, that will all go eventually, then you are left with each other. Parents / marriage broker may know you better than you do yourself and make a better choice.

weigh your options

First @Rahul..."biological charms"....thanks for that giggle.

I chose a marriage for love.

I understand arranged marriages but my culture does not use them. I see the benefit at times.

I prefer to be the master of my own destiny.

For me it's love marriage...I would not marry someone that I was arranged to marry...I know different cultures have different customs...but it is not something I would ever do...EVER...

I have been married twice and I chose those horrible men. I truly think that my parents probably couldn't have chosen worse.

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