Lover threatening to tell Wife?

Fu&k it man hit up the Jerry springer show they will work it out for you

F you and F your wife. If you didn't give two shits about your wife, why would a stranger care about her feelings?? Sorry, but you re the B****.

As a single, luscious, highly educated, self sufficient hottie, I've been the "lover" in this mess on many occassions, unbeknownst to me and I have never felt ANY regret or sorrow for any man that thinks he can manipulate me.

ONLY rage or apathy and I can be very vindictive if I feel like it or if I'm pe'od, so enjoy the ride if this "other woman" is anything like me!

Your lover has nothing to lose. She will do anything in her power to expose you as the piece of S*** you really are. Your wife will leave you in no time if she really has any dignity left and isn't about getting sloppy seconds from her own husband- gross.

I would just tell her your going to confess and after you hurt a good woman you will never speak to her again. If she didn't do this she could have continued to have you once and awhile but by doing this she is making sure you will never be with her. Even if your wife leaves you she will not be the one you spend your life with. She will have to live with hurting your wife and family just for her own revenge.

You should also consider actually telling your wife, she deserves to know who she is married to and what you have done. If the home wrecker actually does tell her at least your wife would have heard it from you first and not some low life skank. It will hurt her less if you tell her yourself.

Welcome to your own personal reality. We are responsible for the consequences of our conduct. Sounds like your problem is something you made. Do you really think your wife has no idea anything is going on? Is she very bright? Did you marry her just to be a brood mare or did you believe that she was intelligent? If she's half-way smart she has figure out what you are doing. So maybe just tell her that you have a gf on the side for sex purposes only and that you still love her and the kids. That's the best way to pull the threat of your recent ex.

First of all, cheating is not the answer! They have marriage counseling or a divorce attorney. But its great that yall have reunited again. Now, my advice would be it would better you tell and explain this to ur wife than anyone else. That way hopefully will continue to trust you and your future decisions. Its always best to tell the truth! People make mistakes in life everyday we are human. But if she hears this from someone else and she will eventually she will never trust you again and then your marriage will be either over or pure hell! You were man enough to do it so be man enough to admit to it and yall go for some marriage counseling. My ex husband and I are doing this now because of the same thing but you must forgive to be forgiven. Tell me, what do you have to lose and what do you have to gain? You will lose your wife if you don't tell the truth and all you have to gain from continuing this sherade is alimony payments and a life of hell but you can gain her trust back cause love is love! It doesn't disappear! For better or worse remember but don't repeat a mistake learn from it! Good luck and God bless the both of you

You made your bed now you literally need to lay in it. Get over it you are going to eventually get caught. If you are even a little bit honorable you will cut the extra woman out and get marriage counseling. The extra woman somehow you didn't let her know that she was a friends with benefits and now she wants more. What did you expect? If you keep pacifying her the stakes are even going to get bigger so you are just building a bigger fuse to go off.

Wow. I think this is might be an actual question. I am pretty non-judgemental but this question pretty much makes me sick. You are being name calling your mistress, you cheating on your wife. Is there anyone that you respect and care for?

Tell the wife. As you will get caught in one way or another. Your only hope of staying married is to tell now before the mistress tells or before you eventually get caught.

I hope for your wife's sake and that your little gf tells your wife all those dirty details and after that they both leave your sorry a s s! How can you sleep at night?! You are putting the blame of YOU cheating on this random girl that YOU chose to f#$k. Grow a sack and tell your wife what your pitiful a s s did to her.

No, YOU hurt your wife, dumb-as*. You get what you deserve.

Ok, then tell your wife the truth YOURSELF. Yes, it's going to hurt. No way to prevent that now. Take the high road for once, admit your mistake, and go from there. At least she deserves the truth from someone who ISN'T trying to destroy her.

Wow you're a real piece of work. Clean up your own mess. I suggest you come clean with your wife before your little whore does. You're a schmuck for cheating on your wife, and the side dish is a skank for knowingly sleeping with a married man! Ever heard of Karma? Good luck, loser.

Tell the mistress you've already told your wife, that she was furious & hurt, but wants to work things out. Tell her no more contact between the two of you or you'll slap her with a restraining order.