Does everyone have a soulmate? Or tons of possible matches? Whats your opinion?

I dont think there is one perfect person out there for us. I think that if we believed that, we'd be in for a life of disappointment and divorces. no matter WHO we choose, the relationship is going to be difficult. no matter who we choose, we will fight, we have differing opinions on things, we will annoy eachother sometimes, the romance will fade, the infatuation goes away. its just how it is. we simply need to pick someone and stick with them. we need to learn all the communication skills that we possibly can, and work out our problems together, compromise, and just talk. so in short, there are tons of possible matches. but it all comes down to just having commitment, because there is no perfect match out there. people have unrealistic ideas about what relationships are supposed to be. they arent as great as they are in the movies, and if they are, its only at first. relationships are easy in the beginning, while the infatuation is there. but infatuation doesnt stick around, and thats something not enough people realize. they mistakenly believe that when the infatuation fades away and the relationship is no longer easy and fun, that they are no longer meant to be. but thats just not true. real long term relationships can get really ugly, and arent all that glorious.

Everyone has a soulmate. Or at least I like to think so. I just met mine. He's pretty much everything I ever wanted and he makes me feel so comfortable and able to be myself. I've never felt like that with anyone else.

I don't think the concept of soul mates makes much sense. Not everyone is entitled to the perfect mate, you have to work for it. Finding the right person is a matter of being open, using good judgment, and a little bit of luck.