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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago

Why don't more Black girls realize guys won't marry them if they're known to be "easy"?

Black women are the least likely to get married out of all races of women, and is this shocking to anyone? Where I live most Black girls have babies at a young age (though not all, but more than other races) and even more - many of these babies they're having do NOT have Black fathers. I keep seeing young Black girls with mixed kids and I know they're too young to be married or in any serious relationship. Why do Black girls do this so often?? Why are Black girls more okay with having kids with a man who won't marry them?

I know a girl who is Black and has kids with a married White man even! - she also knows that he was some other kids with other Black girls, she says he "likes Black girls", but his wife is White because he didn't want to marry a Black girl. Thats messed up. There are lots of guys who do that because they think Black women are good sex but not good wives/partners. Then 70% of Black children are born out of wedlock.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    ....That is REEEEAAALLY racist

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Mercy, you are sure generalizing - makes me wonder where you live, in a commune of some sort? I'm not black, but I know a lot of black girls and only one or two out of the bunch aren't married with kids, so I don't know what neighborhood you are hanging out in! There are a lot of babies born out of wedlock these days, for persons of various color, because a lot of people don't believe in marriage anymore - I know couples with grown kids and they never married and are just fine. Black women are no easier then any other women - you can't lump everyone all together like that and expect someone to respect your opinion - that is just ignorance talking.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    In my opinion it is because most black people are poorer, the area they grow up and live in is below poverty level, there isn't much to do when you don't have the opportunity to have fun or to grow so.. the only thing to do to have fun while they're young is to sleep around and party.. then they grow up and have all these kids knowing they can't change whats already done.. saying that though there is also a lot of white girls with lots of kids out of wedlock, and of mixed races too.. but to be black and poor and only growing up with everyone around you being that way doesn't make you want to strive to be better then the rest

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Do u noticee all the ppl saying its racist are white? All the white ppl need to shut up saying stuff is rasist becuz u guys dont kno nthing. Your ignorant saying stuff like this is rasist. Also call black ppl black... it doesnt offend us so stop trying to make it offend ppl.

    Wow... y dont u ask black girls yourself. Im black and I would be happy if someone like you told people because Im young and I dont have any kids and Im not planning to until Im married. But dont leave out mexican girls because u know mexicans be DUPLICATING... but yeah... ask ppl. And also, I prefer a black guy and I know a lot of black girls prefer a black guy but at the same time black guys are players so white guys seem better. Whats going on with black ppl??? Talk itt out cuz this is badd.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ignorance!!

    Each person regardless of race has the ability to learn, mature and understand life.

    Unfortunetly many blacks where I'm from are strong up thinking people are trying to hold them back while losing jobs, wasting money on things to impress others, thinking there all rappers, and just being ignorant towards life.

    When you grow up around that it holds you back, if 70% of your friends and family did it, it's ok!

    Whites have rednecks that do the thing! It's just ignorance the leads to failure and failure leading to excuses and blame.

    Out of desperation to become something they have babies due to ignorant men or to hold on to a worthless man put on a pedestal thanks to rap!

    Most successful rappers, part a character of a criminal to sell more CDs. Unfortunatly people are too dumb to realize it's and act.

    Ignorant uneducated people are not stars or musicians!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    I dont know why black women are suffering in america, here in africa we man like black woman, we go with white girl for pleasure, nothing more, you canot take a white woman do be your partner it wil be desaster. so black woman in africa they have many advantages than in america, the country of liberty and freedom, what a schame

  • 1 decade ago

    r u trying 2 say that happen 2 u and u don't want us 2 really know hum, don't b putting black women down it happens n all race's not just bk.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You need to go back under the rock you crawled out of

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yes theres many things but maybe they didnt know it,anal ect ect i like big breasts and nipples.hope this helps.

  • 1 decade ago

    i dont know

  • 1 decade ago

    blah blah.... PTs!!!

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