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What should i do about this love dilemma :/?
K so there's this guy that i really like, and i'm pretty sure he liked me too. The problem is that i never accepted his love (i regret it with every part of my body now) i was even kind of resentful towards him, for reasons i still don't understand. Anyways, long story short he doesn't say hi to me anymore, or doesn't try talking to me anymore, and i regret it every day of my life because i LOVE him :( . He goes to my campus now, and i've seen him once. He starred right into my eyes and that was it (we always do this when we see each other, ESPECIALLY when we went to high school together). So basically i'm asking what should i do in this situation? should i try to start a friendship or something (maybe through Facebook because surprisingly he hasn't deleted me) or just leave him alone? please no harsh comments, i really do love him and i regret not accepting him everyday of my life...
Thanks in advance for the replies!!
3 Answers
- 1 decade ago
Not trying to be mean or anything but your the one who rejected him and pushed him away by not letting him into your life. So technically speaking he's hurting a whole lot more than you because he wanted to be with you and you turned him down and just because he goes to the college you do or looks at you every now and then doesn't mean anything really. He may still care for you in some way, shape or form but I'd say he is trying to move on and he may still love you but he's not wanting another chance with you why because you probably would reject him again. You shouldn't start a friendship with him in fact you should leave him alone and let him be. He's hurting enough and you may love him like you say but it's time for you to forget about him and move on. You may regret it now but you will regret it for the rest of your life that you turned away the one person you care for and for what because you wasn't quite ready. Not accepting someone into your heart and life is like having your heart ripped out of your chest. For him he will feel that way for a while but you need to let him be and leave him along until he has time to get over this in his own way.
Source(s): This wasn't his choice it was yours and not accepting him and his love into your heart and life yes you will regret it and you can't ever get that back. Leave him alone and let him be. This isn't your problem anymore. And it's got nothing to do with you. He doesn't need you in fact he probably could care less about the one person who pushed him away. - 1 decade ago
You should go up to him in person one day when you have that "staring into eachother's eyes" moment. lol. just walk up to him and touch his sleeve and ask him how he's been and what's going on. ask him for his number and say you'd like to get together sometime and catch up...tell him you miss him.
- 1 decade ago
is it love, or do you love him because he no longer shows you he loved/s you? After denying his love, how can you now be in love with him. The right thing to do is follow YOUR gut instinct...in the end we choose our own paths and make our own mistakes.
