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moonwalk asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

when a guys says he respects you?

I am friends with this guy.....and i heard from another friend a girl who also happens to want him.....that this guy talks of me frequently and thinks very highly of me....and that he respects me, and considers me a best friend and someone he can count on......

he is always flirting with me,...and always acts like a sweet goofball around me....

so when guy says he respects a girl...is that the kiss of death or his way of saying I want to get in her pants

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  • 1 decade ago
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    This is one of those things to take at face value. It is neither the kiss of death nor does it mean he wants to get with you. It means he respects you as a person, respects your character.

  • 1 decade ago

    He sees you as a friend but won't give up the chance to get in your pants... If your attactive and he hasn't tried anythin with you then he probably dosnt know how to approach the situation.. Ask him if you want a true answer... Or maybe he likes you but didn't wanna crush his chances with the other girl so he said he respected you instead of he liked you... Cuz I'm sure Ur friend ask him if he likes you or not cuz you guys seem close

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    I am friends with this guy.....and i heard from another friend a girl who also happens to want him.....that this guy talks of me frequently and thinks very highly of me....and that he respects me, and considers me a best friend and someone he can count on......

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  • 1 decade ago

    It doesn't necessarily mean one or the other, but one of them at least. It means he respects you.

    This means that you are not a **** or a one night stand if he does want you (it would involve a more deep/meaningful relationship).

    Or he doesn't 'want' you because he respects you (he possibly believes getting in your pants de-values you or something - like you're underage or he's sort of religious).

    But yes, he wants to have sex with you (if he 'doesn't', he actually does but is just restraining himself from doing so).

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  • bells
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    when a guy says that , it is a good thing . Haha defiantly not the kiss of death or sexual . I have a feeling that he likes you and he said that he respects you not to give away too much (thats just my opinion )...just wait till he gives more signs to make sure .

  • 1 decade ago

    neither it means he respects you.

    guys cant be grayed into a single stereo type. even though we may be simpler than girls we are not all the same. if told someone that i respected you than what i would really mean by that is....... that i respect you.he might just want to be friends and he might want to get into your pants but him saying he respects you isnt his way of announcing that.

    ps. if he says that he respects you than he isnt going to try to "get into your pants" hemight want to have a relationship with you, but most likely it isnt based on raw sexual attraction.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes

  • 1 decade ago

    When a guy respects you it means he does not have the intention of taking advantage of his friendship with you to sleep with you.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Nothing wrong with a guy respecting you, but you alone know him so if you don't think he is sincere than you answered your own question.

  • 1 decade ago

    Its a way of saying "I want to get into her pants"

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