If you struggle in your marriage, and fight alot, is there hope?

Thank you for sharing. That article just goes to show that sometimes it takes a complete change in circumstances for us to begin to see what is really important. In the end, its all about being loved by someone unconditionally. I think that that is truly what each and every one of us is hoping for. Its why couples continue to get married in the face of 50% divorce rates. We all just want to be loved. When you think about it in that context, it makes it a lot easier to just forget about arguing about money,and chores, and all of the other issues that we tend to let consume us in our day to day life within marriage,

ppl do argue, but to fight ALOT isn't good*

Communication Trust Honesty & Respect are the keys to a long healthy relationship, without those you have nothing*

There shouldn't always be fighting/arguing*..........to disagree on things then discuss them.....is better.

what is it you're fighting bout all the time?? money??

when was the last time you both laughed together? went out and did something on the spur of the moment fun??

time to sit down and talk and find out why you keep fighting with each other, and what can be done to 'change' that so you both enjoy your marriage more instead of making each other not want to be around the other cuz of the fighting all the time*

GoodLuck*

it's never hopeless when you both want to save the marriage, and will do what it takes to get back on track*

Sometimes relationships can start rough at the very beginning and then later on smooth out and sometimes its starts smooth at the very beginning and then later roughens to the point of divorcing each other. Its far better to be loving each other than to pick your fights. Kissing, hugging, holding hands, embracing, making love 5 times a week, laughing at stupid silly stuff. I try hard not to start a fight or some kind of arguement but sometimes life in general can piss you off and make things unbearable thru out the day.

There is always hope. When everything else is gone, you still have hope, it always remains. I read the article and it is beautiful. When you get married, you change. For me, I became more open about my most intimate secrets, and I look past faults that drive me absolutely crazy. Together, my husband and I have been through many tragedies, including the death of my father. Together, we have cried, lost jobs, and had a son. Our son is disabled and caring for him has brought us closer and much more compassionate.

We've had our fair share of tiffs, and we let them go. What's done is done. But you always have love for one another.

There is always hope, as long as someone starts off in the relatinoship with hope. Its amazing to find someone you are truly compatible with on every level and nurture each other.

This story was touching and moved me to tears...thanks for sharing.

it's hard to say, obviously if you're fighting for someone who doesn't acknowledge your existence then no it'd be a waste of time, but if two are fighting to be together then there is hope

If you are fighting a lot, you need to learn to let go, most issues are really not worth it.

Pick your battles.

There is hope in the fact that life doesn't go on forever and, at some point, you will go to see your maker...and he truly loves you.

it is best to be alone And happy than married and miserable

That is a great article.

Peace.