WOMEN ONLY: Would you marry a man that has 6 kids?

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I am engaged to marry my beau of a year. He is a great catch! Tall, handsome, sexy, intelligent, and financially stable. He is a single father of 6 children and I have none. I don't plan on having any of my own, and he is neutral about that. He makes me happy and so do his kids. Yet, I keep getting slack because of the kid situation. I am fully aware that me marrying him means I am "adopting" his kids and I am fine with that. But due to the slack I am getting for it, I want to take a survey and ask women what they think. So the question is, would you marry a man that had 6 kids if the situation was the same as mine? Why or why not? If not, what would be the deal breaker? Let's get some answers here!!

Update:

@ Paige Thank you and that is the youngest baby!

@Mimzy I like ur username too!

BTW, they do have the same mother. Her and I get along fine and the kids are cute, lovable, and well-mannered. If they were bad as hell, do you even think I would wanna marry him?

Update 2:

THE KIDS HAVE THE SAME MOTHER. THEY JUST DIVORCED AND HE GOT FULL CUSTODY!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I guess if I really loved him.

And that baby in your picture is darlin :)

Anonymous · Answer

No way. First, I think it would cause too much drama.

Second I want having children to be a first time exciting experience for us both when I get married.  I want to get married child free, enjoy our time together alone for a while.

With kids, you can not just up and take a road trip, heck a trip alone to get coffee requires enough work in itself. getting a sitter, etc.  You can not just have sex on your kitchen table at the spur of the moment because you feel like it.  Too many restraints.  I would love to be alone with my husband for a couple years before having children

? · Answer

I trust crimson..however the records is exciting. i think of the guy in question has subject concerns which could be resolved. i understand of somebody fairly comparable (yet purely has 2 little ones/infant daddies). as much as i might choose to choose she'd turn issues around, i definitely do no longer think of she'll ever be waiting to discover a husband. Are you useful she even needs to get married?

? · Answer

If he has 6 kids that means he gets around. You didn't say anything about the fact that you have at least a handful of babymomas your gonna have to deal with. The probability of a man with 6 kids being faithful is pretty low. If you marry him your a little crazy, desperate, and/or gullible. That's the whole Brady Bunch just from him alone!

Anonymous · Answer

I hope I wouldn't, because men tend to expect the woman to do all the stuff for the kids, and there is no way in hell I'd be doing that. They are his kids, and he should do every single thing that needs to be done for them. If he wasn't willing to do that, I'd be out of there.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm 15 so my initial answer is no. I don't think I'd ever be able to handle that many kids. I'm the kind of person who wants the guy to her self then kids after.

But that's selfish ole me.

You love each other and since you can accept/look after the kids, go for it! :-)

appebbles · Answer

Well if the kids are cute and well-mannered, yes.

Anonymous · Answer

If you love him and his children then marry him.

DJ · Answer

if all six kids were from the same mother and he had no std's then yes...

florida keys taken may 2010 · Answer

Hell no. But I could care less if you did

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