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A girl, I know Im in love with, but interesting catch?

The girl and I are both 18. I am in love with her. We have shared so many memories, so many kisses, and so much time with each other. She says she is in love with me too. However, she has hurt me so many times, but I keep coming back. The latest one is her having a crush on another guy, and now she wants to explore it, to see where it goes. She has hurt me times before like this, yet I keep coming back to her and fighting for her. She says I'm the only thing that she will miss from this city (Shes wants to move in a year or two), and will never stop loving me. I have only really screwed up once with her.

So my question is, am I just addicted to her? Is is true love? Or is something wrong with me?

Update:

@ Zoe D

It is a romantic love. I have never seen a romantic love turn into a sibling love.

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I think you're just attracted to her. She sees this and is just playing you. :( She knows that if she can't get the one guy she's attracted to that she can just come running back to you and say she loves you. If she's leaving you and wants to see how things will go with this other guy, then why not leave her? You'll find another girl to love who will honestly truly love you back.

    If this was true love, then this girl wouldn't be leaving and hurting you so much. Nothing is wrong with you. It's just you keep hoping that she will change her ways and stay with you. Move on and find a better girl. I promise you'll find someone to love and her to love you just as much.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    If she likes someone else and wants to pursue it, then I'm sorry but she doesn't love you in the way you love her. Sounds to me like she's just dragging you along and doesn't have concern for your feelings towards her. Think about it this way, if she wants to move so bad but you're the only thing she'll miss, how come she wants to move at all? Why doesn't she want to take you with her? You're wasting your time. Find someone who will love you properly and won't put you through this.

  • 1 decade ago

    You're addicted. This is quite common. You've given too much of yourself to this relationship and now it's starting to crumble. She's no good. Watch "500 Days of Summer" and then look for a new girl.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    i think your dependent of her and although she says she loves you , shes not showing it by messing up all the time. tell her how what she does( and be specific) is hurting you and it makes you think she doesnt actually love you, if she doesnt change then you should get out of the relation ship and move on. it will be hard but its better than being on an up and down rollercoaster in your relationship. best of luck to you :)

    Source(s): my friend is dependent of her boyfriend.
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  • Max
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    It's clear your in love with her. But to keep yourself from heartbreak you need to tell her you can't take it anymore. That you've done everything you could and that you know your in love with her, and if she really does love you, she needs to actually show it. Tell her it's you or you have to be able to know to move on. A person doesn't fall in love only once in their life. Find someone who's just as crazy for you as you are for them.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I think you to should just love each other as a brother and sister rather than a couple. She obviously does not see you as a serious boyfriend, so it is just better for you and her to be friends for now. Sorry:(

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Its a little of both, I'm sorry but sometimes long relationships can get to a place were things change, you know?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you could love her

    or you could just be going "oh.. well. i fought with her so many times. maybe she wants it. and maybe it's best if i come back, so i dont hurt her feelings"

    there could be many reasons. but soon enough, you'll find out if its true love of blinding love

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    its true lovee, ur in love with this girl, but it seems like this girl doesnt have the same with youu she just keeps pushing away and ur pulling yourself to her/!!

  • 1 decade ago

    its true love this is what happens when its a true love

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