Girl says I'm like a brother to her?

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Ive been going out with this girl for about 3 1/2 months and just today she says Im like a brother to her. We've been on about 4 or 5 dates. I had took her out to dinner on her b-day 2 months ago, then she took me out to breakfast on my b-day last week. We hung out at the mall a lot. We've kissed about 4 or 5 times. I thought she was really attracted to me, but today when she was getting out the car and saying bye, she said Im like a brother to her. What does this mean?

Update:

we never officially became a couple. Im just confused

Update 2:

we never said we was girlfriend or boyfriend. Im so confused

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

this girl is messing with you, ask her straight up where you stand explain that you like her and you thought that it was going somewhere to be honest she's leading you on :

Anonymous · Answer

To tell you the truth the girl your with has multiple guys she's dating and that's the truth. Your just one of the guys that she is dating. She wants to test out all the guys she's dating to see which one is the best one in the long run.

M&amp;M · Answer

That is confusing....  I would say if you WEREN'T dating that what she said is a subtle hint that she likes you but doesn't want to date you.. but.. you ARE dating... so what do...

Depending on how your trust with her is, and how much you two generally open up to each other, I would say just ask her what she meant

? · Answer

umh..that's a little weird. I tell my guy friend that he's like a brother to me because I don't like him like that, I would never see myself with him. My boyfriend is like my best friend though. So I think your girlfriend is about to end it with you or incest role play is what you'll need to turn her on;)
have fun love birds

Bro, its over.

evelyn · Answer

well she does not see you as a boyfriend material and yes its akward kissing you...

mel · Answer

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