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what is wrong with me... i only attract losers!?

well its true.. i have lived in this town for 6 months.. small town.. and i have alot of guy friends... who all wants to date.. um.."date" me... yet they have no job. they wanna chill here all night and I wont let them. Now they are all starting to get jealous of one another... they are all good people.. and good friends. I am just not interested in them... like a boyfriend. I am very easy going, layed back.. like to chill at home.. but i just cant seem to find anyone im interested in.. im 37!!!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    It's not that you attract losers, it's that most guys are losers.

  • 1 decade ago

    It's not that most guys are losers, I know I'm not, but if they don't have jobs they're freeloaders. They might be good guys, but you are letting them take advantage of your hospitality. Small towns are bad for dating, or "Dating". I grew up in one and am so glad I got out. You are a beautiful woman and men try to take advantage, because we all have the same thing on our mind. Just tell them up front, you don't want a partner, just a friend. If they don't get the hint ask them not to come back. Men are very territorial. We turn everything into a pissing contest. If you want some more advice just e-mail me. I know girls are back stabbers, but I suggest you find some women friends, at a church or small group. If these aren't your type of people, then good luck. Branch out, it might help.

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