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Why do people...lesbian ?
Why do friends & collegues act different now they know I'm a lesbian? Before I came out I dated guys n my friends were fine getting changed infront of me,(not that I would look or care) or being in a bikini, now they know they just assume that coz their female I fancy them. It's strange
7 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade ago
People do that because they're closed minded. When I came out I got the opposite reaction. Once I said that I was attracted to females, I had females all over me. Girls started hugging me more and hanging around me more. They'd hold their arms around me and just flirt a lot. They all assumed that just because I liked girls that meant that I was interested in doing some weird experiments with them to turn them into a lesbian. Lol. That wasn't what I wanted at all. You just can't change what people think. Even though girls distanced themselves a bit from you and girls got closer to me it's still because of the same thing, they think it's all about sex and being freaky and that's just not it.
- FlameoLv 41 decade ago
I guess you can't really do anything about it. It seems a lot of straight guys/girls get the idea that if they hang out with an LGBT person, it automatically means the LGBT person has the hots for them.
I mean, that must be why they always have the opposite gender always looking at them right? Oh wait - they don't, silly me.
They just need to grow up really.
EDIT: @sparhawk7322, the fact you just basically stated that you want to have sex with every woman you see says all I need to know about you.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You just answered your own question, it's because your lesbian. And yeah, a lot of straight people get so homophobic around gay people.
- 1 decade ago
ask them, maybe they're uncomfortable with the fact that you hid it from them for this long. But really it's nothing worth acting different over...
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
"why do people lesbian"
I didn't know Lesbian was a verb. actually, this explains a lot. I realized my friend had just really been practicing her lesbian
- Anonymous1 decade ago
They fear that you are a crazy Amazonian woman that will destroy all men and sleep with all women. People are bitches. **** 'em. Not literally. Unless they're girls. Go for it.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
So you don't look at a woman and have any sexual thoughts then or later? Everyone that believes that stand on your head. It's this kind of disconnect that makes me certain that homosexuality is a mental disorder.