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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

How shoukd i tell my mom i masturbate?

I wanna tell my mom i masturbate. Im 12 years old. I  know what ur thinkin "oh, kinda a part of puberty, part of growing up. Its ok, she'll understand" trust me, she wont. Shes to overbaring, controlive and alot of other stuff. I wanna tell her but she mite thnk bad of me. U mite also think this: " ur 12. Dnt do it. Its to inappropiate" i wanna stop but i cnt. I know it makes me sound like a sex addict but i just cnt.   Plus for the christians, is masturbating a sin, or a gift from God? If u can find sunwere n the bible i cood look in, i  wood appriciate it. If not, its ok. Men, plz dnt answer this question unless its for the christian part. I woodnt fell very comfortable- esppeacially at 12! Thnx and God bless!

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And p.s.: im a girl if you are wondering my gender

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  • 1 decade ago
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    she is your mother---she did it when she was younger and she knows you are doing it. of course she does not think about it because she is your mother and she would rather not think about it period. so just don't say anything. god does not say that you can't have fun with yourself.

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't tell your mum, everyone does it, if they say they dont they are lying, and its a private thing so you don't hav to tell anyone. If god didnt want you to masterbate he wouldn't have made it feel good, you body and everything it does is totally normal and defo not sinful, you are a miracle and if we belive the bible created in gods image so you are perfect. good luck xx

    Edit: Dark do you have a clue about religeon? what a load of crap!!

  • 1 decade ago

    good god! don't tell her anything! its not a sin and there is nothing wrong with you for doing it! I assume you have your peroid already and it is just a part of growing up! nobody needs to know and dont feel guilty for it. Its ok

  • 1 decade ago

    i dont think you need to tell your mum something like this. everyone does it and its not unusual. she would have done it when she was yr age too. dont worry about it sweety its ok and perfectly normal xxxxxxx

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  • 1 decade ago

    Lol yeah why the hell dyu want to tell her xD all boys wuld masturbate so leave it its pretty much meant to b private

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    masturbation is wrong from a christian point of view because it is seen as a form of adultery, a way of pleasuring your body outside of marriage in a physical sense. tell your mum but choose your timing wisely and be prepared for consquences because what you did is wrong and should stop it won't help you in the long run.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Then don't tell her.

    And don't let her catch you doing it.

    And use a clean sock.

  • 1 decade ago

    She probably already knows.

  • 1 decade ago

    Why would you tell her?

  • 1 decade ago

    no

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