how can i strech out my vagina ?

Tightness is a function of the vagina muscles. You are 'tight' because you are tensing up. You'll have an easier time having sex if you can learn how to relax those muscles.

The next time you go pee, stop mid-pee. The muscles you are using to do that are your pelvic floor muscles. Note how it feels to tense them.

Let go, and note the difference.

Now pee as hard as you can. You are now using your muscles to push. That will make your vagina more open.

I'd advise you to practice in the shower, by gently inserting a finger into your vagina, and using the muscles in different ways to learn how to control them.

And yes, doing that regularly, and adding a finger as soon as the previous one goes in comfortably, will work. Just give yourself plenty of time. A few weeks, or months, as needed. You can just practice every time you're in the shower.

There are plenty of other ways for you and your boyfriend to explore each bodies in a sexual way in the meantime, and plenty of ways to give each other pleasure, so there's no rush.

Oh, and when you're ready to try again: have at least one orgasm before you try to get his penis inside your vagina. It will help a lot.

Good luck!

Numbing lube does not work, friends have been there and done that. What I would suggest you do is do a little exercising, a little stretching and whatnot and that should help open it up a lil bit. What may be the problem is that your boyfriend does not know how to stick it in all the way. Tell him to try pushing it a little harder, and if that dont work you should tell your doctor to look more into it. Lube will only help ease the penis into your vagina, it wont help it make it wider.

Could it be that your boyfriend is to large? That might be the problem, if not I say you need to go to a different docter because you dont want to keep trying and there be something really wrong with your vagina thats making it so tight and then you tear something up in there. Good luck

you do not desire that element moving into you! Esp once you're 13. If he doesn't like your pussy this is an extremely good reason to shop HIM OUT OF IT and in basic terms shop him happy with handjobs. If it really is no longer ok for him then get rid of him and wait many years once you'll stumble on a good guy who isn't into exploiting 13 three hundred and sixty 5 days olds and giving them STD's.

Go ask a doctor.

You could try being a prostitute for several days and see if that stretches it out.

Try using a dildo

Hey baby that's my specialty.