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Girls: What attracts you most to a guy?

Inspired by a question on here I just answered that involved what guys like in girls.

So, give it to me-

Personality, body, all of it. Depth is appreciated.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    in all honesty looks will attract you to the person but personality is what is going to keep the girl around. always be courtious and genuinely nice, (as you've probably figured out) girls are much more sensitive then guys, so even "joking-insults" are never appreciated. but compliments are always accepted. (make sure they aren't just YOUR HOT, but things like "oh your hair looks really good today, your eyes are pretty - that kind of thing) hope this helps:)

    Source(s): me..
  • 1 decade ago

    Looks definitely play a role, since that is what the initial attraction is based on. That being said, looks obviously aren't everything.

    Ideally, I'd like a guy who was of a regular build: Not too skinny, not too built. Regular toned muscles are nice. I'm only 5'4, so height isn't a problem as long as he's taller... I'm short, so he should be!

    I can't speak for every girl, but I have a thing for sexy arms, sexy hands, and of course a sexy butt ;)

    The most important parts of a guy's face for me is facial structure (nice jawline, cheekbones) and a beautiful smile. The teeth need not be perfect, just regular and clean, but confidence and emotions come through the smile so it's very important.

    I would pick an average-looking guy with a great personality over a drop-dead gorgeous guy with a dull personality any day, so on to personality traits: Humour, intelligence, politeness, respect and loyalty are the top ones for me.

  • 1 decade ago

    Looks wise: I don't have a type. First boyfriend was short, brown hair and stocky. Second boyfriend was tall, blonde and skinnier. Though I do tend to go for guys with a 'nice' face.

    Personality wise: I have to be able to have a conversation with the guy as a friend. One guy I went out had been my friend for 2 years beforehand. Admittedly it made the break up more difficult but trust is a big thing for me in relationships and trusting them as a friend is important. Also entertaining (they can carry on a conversation), has interests outside me or getting laid and just a something that makes me interested in them.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He can't be a total fat ***. He also can't be a stick I need something to cuddle with.

    I like blue or green eyes but it isn't a priority. He must be taller than me but that's simple because I'm short.

    Hair can't be oily or too short, also it can't be too long ( longer than ear length)

    Muscles are very much apprecitated. not like a 6 pack and totally ripped but he'll need to be strong enough so he can lift things up for me.

    He MUST be smart, I can't be with an idiot. He should be in at least 1 advanced class. I enjoy laughing so he has to be funny. He'll need to understand that I am a total spaz and I can't control my issues sometimes. He has to be fun like be able to think of cool ways to spend time together and not just lumping around all day. He has to have goals like is he going to college or not, what kind of job does he want.

    He NEEDS to know that my favorite color is not pink and I don't want stuffed animals.

    He should know what t.v.shows and movies i like. I want to be able to make fun of certain people together though he is still nice.

    I need to be able to trust him.

    That pretty much sums it up.

  • 1 decade ago

    I love it when they have a I don't give a sh!t its my opinion attitude. Looks don't really matter but they always help. Or when they make a effort to talk to you not stare at you from across the room and look in your eyes when they talk. And when they pay attention to what you say and emotions.

    That's all I can think of sorry I'm half asleep lol

  • 1 decade ago

    Looks

  • 1 decade ago

    smile. six pack. personality. teeth. pecs. eyes. shoulders. eyes. lips. big arms. (i personally hate a too skinny man.. he looks very little masculine) umm hair. hands.

    probably in that order, but still the last one is really important. i only put in the important ones :)

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    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Personality-

    Sensitive, attentive, smart, outgoing, easy to talk to, understanding, etc.

    Body-

    Olive/light brown skin, fit/athletic. AKA: tall dark and handsome. lol ;)

  • 1 decade ago

    i love a guy who is smart, i want to be able to have a conversation with him (:

    and wit is appreciated as well :P

    and someone who can tolerate my weirdness, so someone weird too.

    also someone who is sweet, and not loud and obnoxious.

    someone who isn't intentionally awkward.

    or just cares about boobs. or appearance.

    i want a guy who cares about issues in the world.

    also i love a guy who smells great :)

    and someone with really nice eyes!

    hope it helped!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    One who respects a lady.

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