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How can I make my boyfriend understand that a machine gun is not romantic?

My boyfriend is an ex Army Ranger. He and his brothers are big gun enthusiasts, hunters, and sportsmen. They own a large hunting ranch in west Texas and gun store in the city. My boyfriend has his FFL.

Everything - everywhere, is about guns and shooting.

For Christmas, he got me a German Heckler & Koch MG4. I admit, it is a nice firearm and we had lots of fun shooting it at the ranch but he could have gotten me a pretty necklace for a quarter of the price and I would have swooned!

I enjoy guns and own a few handguns myself. Since I have my Texas CHL, I carry one wherever I go. I don't mind guns at all. I like them. I'm around them all day and have even shot in competitions around the southwest but why can't he understand a machine gun is not a sweet and romantic gift for a girlfriend? (Last Valentine's day he gave me a Sig P220 Carry Elite Dark. Romantic? NOT!)

I know his heart is in the right place and giving an MG4 is a thoughtful gesture in his thinking. I tried to talk to him about it in the past but he just laughs and thinks I'm being silly. How can I make him understand?

(I've asked gun questions before and some guys think I mean those silly air soft things. I'm not. I'm talking about real weapons. I just wanted to make that clear.)

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Explain to him that while his thoughts behind the guns are romantic and you enjoy them, special occasions call for something that a woman would enjoy. Be firm, but not rude. It's clear he thinks highly of you and wants to impress you. He may not be sure how, though, so give him gentle and subtle ideas.

  • 1 decade ago

    Try asking him how he'd feel if you got him something equally absurd as a Christmas present. How would he feel if you got him a new crock pot, or a spatula as a gift? It's just as useful, but is it something you want from a lover? Probably not. Chivalry is so dead if he honestly thinks giving you a gun is a romantic gesture.

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't know sweetie. An MG4 is pretty romantic to me. I would almost be willing to be his girlfriend for one and I'm not gay!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well, if you tell him that straight on, then you might hurt his feelings...

  • 1 decade ago

    tell him straight on

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Even it´s a German gun...

    ...your boyfriend is sick.

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